"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i called this girl yesterday to set up a date, she said she'd call back in an hour but she didn't

i get a message from her today on my machine, she said she was sorry she didn't call back and to give her a call

should i call her back tonight? my gut says no, but i'm at home bored, this is like my last night before i go back to school??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She called back saying sorry, I'd call her if your interested. If she doesn't answer and pulls the same **** on you again then....NEXT her ass!!



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thanks man! thats what i was thinking.........i just needed to hear it from someone else!
 
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Originally posted by Pimp-sicle
She called back saying sorry, I'd call her if your interested. If she doesn't answer and pulls the same **** on you again then....NEXT her ass!!
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I don't know. You see, people says sorry to often for it to have meeting. If this was a genuine sorry than you can call her, but she should call you if she's penitent for her sin. Now, if this is a monotonous don't-really-give-a-flying-ƒuck sorry then I'd wait a while before calling her again.
 
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Call her back tommorow night and set up a date for Friday if you can. Tonight being the last night before school is irrelevant, because it's not like you would set up a date for tonight anyway.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1. are you going to bone her tonight?

2. your leaving for school will you see her anytime in your near future.

3. if you answered no then why bother! she disrespected your nutz by leaving them hanging in the wind...
 
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Originally posted by trevor2003
i called this girl yesterday to set up a date, she said she'd call back in an hour but she didn't

i get a message from her today on my machine, she said she was sorry she didn't call back and to give her a call

should i call her back tonight? my gut says no, but i'm at home bored, this is like my last night before i go back to school??
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Don't ever sit around and wait for an answer when you ask for a date. If a woman says that she'll call you back she means that she will call you back if she doesn't get a better offer. If she can't give you an immediate answer (yes or no with a counter offer) move on. Put her on the back burner until she makes YOU an offer.
 
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