quick question*

[wvpimp00]

I went out with a girl i am interested in last night...
and well my plans i made went all to hell.. so we still went out to eat but nothing else so we went to a big city near our small city and we drove around and got lost and just talked..

it was a lot of fun.. she said she actuallt had a good time.. and at the end of the niht i took her home at like 1 and we went into her house and her parents were having a party-- every one was drunk..

and her dad gave me the usual dad harrassment(showing me his m-16 from the gulf war) and her mom was BSing with me.. but after a while we both hit the door and as we were walking towards my car she put her hand towards me and i touched her hand as if we were going to hold hands so i took it liek that and we held hands..

and as we got to my car i BSed some more and we faced each other and i told her i ha dto go and i woudl see her later and we hugged and i noticed she huged me pretty tight and i pulled back a little and i kissed her and yeah she wasnt expecting it... but i kissed her and then she kissed me but i wasnt expecting it then..lol..

so my question is: since we did kiss will this bring us closer?
i noticed last night for the first time that she really warmed up to me.. and was talking more freely...
i actually do like this girl, shes 16 and i just turned 18 recently.. so i dont think its that big of a difference.. or is it?
so were does it go from here?

WV!

 

[Zeus]

U did good man, don't think about it so damn much man. Just go with the flow, you are doing just fine.

 

[xblitz44x]

Yeah. Like Zeus said. You're doing fine. You are getting to know each other, getting to feel comfortable around each other. In the beginning of a first date, you are in 'performance' mode. Both people (if they like each other) are trying to get to know the other person while NOT screwing things up themselves. So that's why sometimes it seems so awkward and strange. Everybody is too nervous that they are going to fvck things up to *really* be themselves.

So as the date progresses, and your date notices that you like her; she will relax and feel more comfortable. After you kiss, it's pretty much assumed that you like her enough to go out with again. On the next date, the first few minutes might be a little awkward because you get into that "what now?" mode..but soon the chemistry that fueled the first date will carry over into the second. I recommend kissing, or at LEAST laying a huge hug on her when you see her the second date to set an affectionate tone.

 

[wvpimp00]

Thanks for reading my post..
im sort of surprised people actually read what i write...haha..

Yeah the first date was akward but we kept the convo flowing, but she wanted to see a 3 hour movie and it was sort of boring but she enjoyed herself... so i guess its fine!

im glad me and her got over this hurdle, i was cheated on and i have trust issues and with this girl i dont really worry about ti because shes a virgin and doesnt date much.. sort of like me..

i asked her last night if she woudl ever go out with me again and she said :" heck No" and i laughed and moved

 

[wvpimp00]

Thanks for reading my post..
im sort of surprised people actually read what i write...haha..

Yeah the first date was akward but we kept the convo flowing, but she wanted to see a 3 hour movie and it was sort of boring but she enjoyed herself... so i guess its fine!

im glad me and her got over this hurdle, i was cheated on and i have trust issues and with this girl i dont really worry about ti because shes a virgin and doesnt date much.. sort of like me..

i asked her last night if she woudl ever go out with me again and she said :" heck No" and i laughed and moved away form her and she started laughing and grabbed my arm..

i know she likes me because she tells me im very good looking and that her other male frineds even think im hot(weird) and she pretty much says"i liek you", but i have never told her i liked her.. but in a way i think the kiss may have given it away..
lataz.. if you have any more tips-tricks..etc.. let me know...

 

[Axe]

Originally posted by wvpimp00
i asked her last night if she woudl ever go out with me again and she said :" heck No" and i laughed and moved away form her and she started laughing and grabbed my arm...

if you have any more tips-tricks..etc.. let me know...

My tip: Don't ever ask a girl if she will *ever* go out with you again. That's one the of wussiest things you can do. It gives all your power away after only the FIRST date. You're the man, if you want to do something with her again, you'll ask her out. Just think, you *asked* her if you can *ask* her out. Say it to yourself, you sound retarded. Think of how it sounded to her.

 

[wvpimp00]

nah it was a joke between us.. i knew she was into me thats why i said that.. she called me earlier asking me if i wanted to go see a movie... i have her wipped.. shes really into me but im remaining a challenge..

 

[AmgineEX]

I dont think 16 18's that bad. For that age, about a 2yr difference is good enough. Mine was a yr and a half younger than me.

 

[Walden]

Originally posted by wvpimp00
Iso my question is: since we did kiss will this bring us closer?