Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Being a passive little ***** and making it in hoping she will ask you out in result and do all of the initial steps is a ***** move. Making it and directly asking her out is not a ***** move.
Refer to this thread about approaching women while they are working.
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Refer to this thread about approaching women while they are working.
Successfully Approaching Women at Work (General Public Workers)
The idea of approaching women while they are at their jobs containing interaction with the general public is a topic that is somewhat contentious among men. When I think of women who work with the general public, these are the categories that come to mind of women to approach. Strippers...
I've generally believed in not hitting on women at work. It's ideal to meet women who work with the public in settings outside of work.
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played some basket, lowered my inhib. And approached, took an L.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Was my directness good this?