"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Every time I think about something "emotional" I get a heavy feeling in my chest.

I looked online and It's not any chest pains from working out or improper diet either and I'm not sure if its anxiety because it goes away once I stop thinking about whatever it was I was thinking about.

I'm worried if this is healthy or not and what I should do.

Help a bro out please!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Frayzer said:
Every time I think about something "emotional" I get a heavy feeling in my chest.

I looked online and It's not any chest pains from working out or improper diet either and I'm not sure if its anxiety because it goes away once I stop thinking about whatever it was I was thinking about.

I'm worried if this is healthy or not and what I should do.

Help a bro out please!
I understand what your talking about. Did you go through a big emotional stress period before? like a bad break up?. I suffered the same when i went through a brutal break up and then other things going downhill for me all at the same time. because of that time i somtimes get a heavy feeling in my chest and even i dont know if its anxiety or what but its a feeling of being "down" you just have a "heavy" heart so to speak and its just there until it wares off.
 

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In2theGame said:
I understand what your talking about. Did you go through a big emotional stress period before? like a bad break up?. I suffered the same when i went through a brutal break up and then other things going downhill for me all at the same time. because of that time i somtimes get a heavy feeling in my chest and even i dont know if its anxiety or what but its a feeling of being "down" you just have a "heavy" heart so to speak and its just there until it wares off.
Yeah something like that. Is there anything I can do to make it go away?

It's like subconscious, like when I see a couple on tv or on the street I get that feeling or when in reading something "emotional" or just thinking emotionally.

This doesn't happen like everyday, it's just when the thought crosses.
 
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