Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Every time I think about something "emotional" I get a heavy feeling in my chest.

I looked online and It's not any chest pains from working out or improper diet either and I'm not sure if its anxiety because it goes away once I stop thinking about whatever it was I was thinking about.

I'm worried if this is healthy or not and what I should do.

Help a bro out please!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Frayzer said:
Every time I think about something "emotional" I get a heavy feeling in my chest.

I looked online and It's not any chest pains from working out or improper diet either and I'm not sure if its anxiety because it goes away once I stop thinking about whatever it was I was thinking about.

I'm worried if this is healthy or not and what I should do.

Help a bro out please!
I understand what your talking about. Did you go through a big emotional stress period before? like a bad break up?. I suffered the same when i went through a brutal break up and then other things going downhill for me all at the same time. because of that time i somtimes get a heavy feeling in my chest and even i dont know if its anxiety or what but its a feeling of being "down" you just have a "heavy" heart so to speak and its just there until it wares off.
 

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I understand what your talking about. Did you go through a big emotional stress period before? like a bad break up?. I suffered the same when i went through a brutal break up and then other things going downhill for me all at the same time. because of that time i somtimes get a heavy feeling in my chest and even i dont know if its anxiety or what but its a feeling of being "down" you just have a "heavy" heart so to speak and its just there until it wares off.
Yeah something like that. Is there anything I can do to make it go away?

It's like subconscious, like when I see a couple on tv or on the street I get that feeling or when in reading something "emotional" or just thinking emotionally.

This doesn't happen like everyday, it's just when the thought crosses.
 
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