"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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fonsi141

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So this girl chatted hi to me and i chatted back but then she did not answer. The next day she says, sorry that i did not answer you i was studiyng.. i did not answer and she asked, are you there?
Two days have passed and i have not still answered.. what should i say?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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apocolipto

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Dude, doesn't sound like anything is going on there, and u haven't really given her anything to work with.Just go game her face to face, if you feel anything is between you, go for her.Don't ever wonder if she is intrerested, and assume attraction.

Won't get anywhere not doing something!
 
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Forget lingering in the past, man! Be in the moment, do things you've never done before!

Just call her up and meet up with her, if you so desire. If you want another chick, then go for that one. Whatever!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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