"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Quick question

fonsi141

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2012
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
This one might be a silly one but what do you think.. I girl asked me if i am going to a party of a girl's birthday. I was not invited. What should i answer her?
a) no.. why?
b)no and you ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

LearningSlowly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
12
Location
Atlanta
fonsi141 said:
This one might be a silly one but what do you think.. I girl asked me if i am going to a party of a girl's birthday. I was not invited. What should i answer her?
a) no.. why?
b)no and you ?
I would usually take that as an invitation. "I thought I had other plans but they might not happen... Where is it?" then lead the conversation to make it happen.
 

fonsi141

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2012
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
i told her something similar to that and she told me.. but were you invited or not ?
 

fonsi141

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2012
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
Fail

She said she would invite me but the list is already made... is that an excuse ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top