Quick question

[Igetit!]

Darth,Darth,Darth....you disappointed me man. When you first said...

She's married.


So...that'll be the end of that.

I thought,"pheww. Disaster averted."


But now you decided to go ahead and to go see her. Well,you're a grown man,so I guess you can do whatever it is you want to do. But this thing you said here is wrong.....

I have that feeling like I'm about to make a huge huge mistake.

This is not a mistake,it's a CHOICE. You CLEARLY SAID....

I've decided to meet her,

This was DECISION. You CHOSE this. So whatever happens thereafter is a direct result of this decision that you WILLFULLY made.



It's not like you were walking down the street,slipped on a banana peel,then "whoops!",you had your d!ck inside her. This has all been orchastrated and planned out. (that is,if things get that far).

but I will not let it get out of hand.

That's like someone going to AA meetings deciding to go to a bar and tryng not to drink. Why bother putting yourself in a situation where you know you can cause yourself UNNESSARY hurt and hardship?


You said you couldn't stop thinking about the girl,and that was when you were apart from her. So how do you plan to "not let things get out of hand" in an one on one situation where you're ALONE with her? You said she's a "9",right? So you're going to remain "cool" ALONE with a wiilling 9???



Come on Darth. I know you're only 20,but even you should know better than that.

 

[Warrior74]

Maybe do a little research on your professor first? maybe check and see if he's married and what his wife's name is? See if they match up? Ask around, check his bio, or his facebook? I mean how hard is it to look before you leap? She could just be his piece on the side. Just keep it low key regardless until you know what you've gotten into. No PDAs and clingyness yah?

 

[Darth]

Met her. She was smiling and flustered and touching her hair and all of that stuff. We sat down. Within a minute, she brought up a name- the first name of my professor. I said, "Oh, right, my professor." She said, "He's my husband." She smiled. "I'm married." Then we burst out laughing. I said, "That's good to know!" And then we laughed and were both embarrassed. She started to talk about 3 times after that, but kept smiling and then laughing and couldn't get started.

We talked for some time.

Then I found out her husband was going to pick her up. A couple minutes later, I asked what time that would be. It was in like 15 minutes. So 5 minutes later, I told her I had to leave. She asked me if I had to. I said, "Yes, I think it would be best."

Maybe it was cowardly, but I didn't really want to see him outside of class, given the circumstances.

Then she turned all stern and said that she hoped she had answered all of my questions. I said, "Yes, you did." (my thought is that she was thinking about having to explain all this to her husband, and explain what she did to discourage me).

But then I got her smile again.

Between this and my smooth moves Saturday night, I'm becoming the king of awkward conversations with women. Imagine having to talk for nearly an hour after it started that way.

But I just wanted to let you know....NOTHING HAPPENED. And nothing would have happened. It was just extra practice, and a new friend, I guess.