"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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onlysmiles

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Okay, what does it mean when a girl keeps on asking you what times your open house and telling you shes going multiple of times...and finally when the day comes, she deosn't show up??


thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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onlysmiles

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What do you do when a women flakes out on you? and i know i'm going to see her again because she is my best friend's girl friend's friend.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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When a girl flakes on you, usually you just forget the ***** and move on.

But if she's really hot like an LA 9 or 10 you can act as if you flaked on her too, and then try it again. Sometimes those Los Angeles girls especially, they're nutty, they forget to show up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AKA FLEX

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What did the barber say? "NEXT!"

If she had a legitimate excuse for flaking out, she would call you ASAP to apologize and explain.

Heed the advice of the above poster. Don't rely on this girl for anything other than sex (if you can get it) from now on.
 

yama600rr

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what do you think it mean? she hates you, you dont have a chance, youre stuck with your hand for a little longer... that's what it means, get a fvcking clue broham!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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