"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Say you've been hanging out with a girl for a lil while and have already had sex. How would you go about making the two of you official/exclusive? Would it be better to be straight up in your words keeping in mind you're not sure what kinda relationship the girl is looking for.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is there a way to go about it w/o coming off as an afc? I remember reading on here that you should wait for the girl to bring up the whole status thing.
 
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amnbyrd said:
Is there a way to go about it w/o coming off as an afc? I remember reading on here that you should wait for the girl to bring up the whole status thing.
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Not really, in any relationship, the one who is most indifferent has the upper hand. You have to wait for her to supplicate to you, ask you to be her boyfriend or whatever, and you should perhaps act a little hesitant towards the whole idea.
 
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Never ever ever ever EVER propose the idea of exclusivity! SHE'S trying to catch YOU, because YOU are the PRIZE!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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