Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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CrazyAsianBiker

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Ok i talked to this girl i met on myspace online for about 1 minute.

I get up and take a shower, I come back and she's not online anymore.

She calls me, and this is what she says.

"Hey crazyasianbiker"

Hi who is this

It's myspacegirl.

Oh hey hows it going.

Good, I was just calling to say hi.

Okay, Hi.

Well i also wanted to apologize that i didn't say bye before i signed off

Haha, it's ok i didn't take it personally.

Ok :).

Well i have to eat now, i just wanted to say hi and sorry.

Ok, have a nice meal.

Ok.

Have a nice horse

what?

Have a nice horse.

Um.. alright..

hahahahahaha alright bye.

*click*


Why the **** would she call me like that?

This is the same chick that said "I'm going to be the one that's going to bring you down"

See... I was kind of over it because the last 2 times i tried to set up dates she said she was busy. (She really was busy though, she had to go to cheerleading practice.)

Is she just ****ing with me and teasing me? Or is she really into me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SynapsyS

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What's with the horse? I sort of can't follow who's saying what here.

Apart from that, looks to me like you've got her well interested. Don't give in though, set a date, and if she can't make it, be busy other times. She sounds like she has the capacity to tame guys, so yeah, just a warning :)

Syn.
 

Paradigm Artisan

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Hahahaha! Yea dude, what's with the horse? I love it though, maybe I'll try it.

Well CrazyAsianBiker, if a girl is actually busy, then she is actually busy. If she tries to reschedule or keeps hinting at a date (Some girls are more passive about such things) then she is interested. Even though I wasn't there, I would have to say that when a girl randomly calls you for such a dumb reason, then she wants you.

If a girl randomly bumps into you more then once, if she seems to be in your presence for no apparent reason, if she starts conversations with you (Phones included) she probably likes you.

This is apposed from keeping her distance and going out of her way to NOT call you, which calling you is hard to do on accident. She could of just left you a myspace message but she didn't.

To me, this situation seems like she is interested. Is she just teasing you? I can't tell, I don't know her. Meet her somewhere and find out. It dosen't even have to be a date-date. Just with some friends and invite her along. Then look for the IOI's and see how much she kinos you if any.

Hope I helped :up:
 
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