"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CrazyAsianBiker

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Ok i talked to this girl i met on myspace online for about 1 minute.

I get up and take a shower, I come back and she's not online anymore.

She calls me, and this is what she says.

"Hey crazyasianbiker"

Hi who is this

It's myspacegirl.

Oh hey hows it going.

Good, I was just calling to say hi.

Okay, Hi.

Well i also wanted to apologize that i didn't say bye before i signed off

Haha, it's ok i didn't take it personally.

Ok :).

Well i have to eat now, i just wanted to say hi and sorry.

Ok, have a nice meal.

Ok.

Have a nice horse

what?

Have a nice horse.

Um.. alright..

hahahahahaha alright bye.

*click*


Why the **** would she call me like that?

This is the same chick that said "I'm going to be the one that's going to bring you down"

See... I was kind of over it because the last 2 times i tried to set up dates she said she was busy. (She really was busy though, she had to go to cheerleading practice.)

Is she just ****ing with me and teasing me? Or is she really into me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SynapsyS

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What's with the horse? I sort of can't follow who's saying what here.

Apart from that, looks to me like you've got her well interested. Don't give in though, set a date, and if she can't make it, be busy other times. She sounds like she has the capacity to tame guys, so yeah, just a warning :)

Syn.
 

Paradigm Artisan

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Hahahaha! Yea dude, what's with the horse? I love it though, maybe I'll try it.

Well CrazyAsianBiker, if a girl is actually busy, then she is actually busy. If she tries to reschedule or keeps hinting at a date (Some girls are more passive about such things) then she is interested. Even though I wasn't there, I would have to say that when a girl randomly calls you for such a dumb reason, then she wants you.

If a girl randomly bumps into you more then once, if she seems to be in your presence for no apparent reason, if she starts conversations with you (Phones included) she probably likes you.

This is apposed from keeping her distance and going out of her way to NOT call you, which calling you is hard to do on accident. She could of just left you a myspace message but she didn't.

To me, this situation seems like she is interested. Is she just teasing you? I can't tell, I don't know her. Meet her somewhere and find out. It dosen't even have to be a date-date. Just with some friends and invite her along. Then look for the IOI's and see how much she kinos you if any.

Hope I helped :up:
 
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