Quick question side plate - confused (yaap i know)

[TheGambino]

ayoo bro's

longtime that I got mixed signals from a girl, but there we go again, I know stuff like this is mostly low interest but still want to know your thoughts guys.

Met this plate a month ago, she was making eye contact and laughing, I aproached and number closed. She was in a relationship, asked her out she gave me an excuse --> backburner. (know shes single, she broke up with her bf)

Met her in the bus again 2 weeks later and had a great convo, she gave me IoI's.

She started to snapchat me after that morning. Every 2 hours until today.

We texted back and forth the last week about dogs(same interest) and later I got it too some sexual stuff, she responded with sexy answers and started convo's. Twice she said 'what ur up 2 tonight', and 'im home at 8 what are your plans?'. Told her that I had plans and was busy she said 'wat your so busy with than', responded vague.

anyway today I was sitting at the bus and she passes me without saying something and gets out the bus 1 stop before the stop we always go out together. She never did that before...

I know rationalizing is bad in these situations and just think: low interest, but I can imagine that she's feels its kinda awkward since we never dated and I started with sexual stuff true text like asking for a massage etc.

She sends me 2 snapchats of herself today after this morning.. weird stuff

I'm thinking of NC'ing her until she starts convo and then ask her out.

any thoughts?

(I am spinning plates... just learning to understand why women do this stuff)

 

[TheGambino]

I am guessing she is feeling guilty because she is in a relationship, and so has pulled back. I'd leave her alone, I imagine she will keep your number, and if the relationship ends, may contact you. I'd just leave it alone for now.

She's single. She broke up with her bf 3-4 weeks ago.

 

[TheException]

Next time you see her, why not ask her out?

This^

I dont know why you wouldnt have tried to "reschedule" when she was practically begging for you to come over and hit it.

She probably just feels slightly rejected because lets face it.....the average guy is dropping whatever plans he has to get laid usually. You are different. I would just shoot her a text...."Hey. What days you free to hangout this week?". And go from there.

Whenever a girl is trying to make plans with you.....shes interested. Capitalize on that sh1t.

 

[TheGambino]

Ye but I just think it's weird that she passed me, I smiled to her and she doesn't look in my direction. Then she just leaves the bus at a different stop, almost like shes avoiding me.

Than I should ask her out..?

If the right situation occurs Ill ask her out, if she keeps on doing this sh1t shes out. I see her almost every morning at the bus station anyway. thx bros