"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MountainSlide

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You been on a couple dates with a girl (no make out yet) is it cool to text her and ask what she is wearing, because you're hoping she says nothing. Or are you supposed to wait until her P**sy dries up for you because you have bored her vagina so much. Here is a translation for those who don't speak pimpanese:

If you ask a woman what she is wearing over text, after being on a couple of dates, (there was some kino but no kissing) will she think you are just trying to use her for sex and bounce or will most girls be cool with that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you are trying to get a girl to be sexual over texting that is close to the worst way to go about it.

Unless it's a natural, non-sexual part of the conversation...such as if you and her had been talking about what she should wear to such-and-such an event. In which case you could say "what did you end up wearing?" and then maybe a few texts later tease her and say something like: "that was dangerously close to the 'what are you wearing?' text :p"

The other exception would be if, on your first few dates/meetups you two had been joking about sexting and about saying "what are you wearing?" to start sexting. In which case, sending that would be a funny way to acknowledge that inside joke and likely get a flirty, sexual convo going.
 
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gravityeyelids said:
If you are trying to get a girl to be sexual over texting that is close to the worst way to go about it.

Unless it's a natural, non-sexual part of the conversation...such as if you and her had been talking about what she should wear to such-and-such an event. In which case you could say "what did you end up wearing?" and then maybe a few texts later tease her and say something like: "that was dangerously close to the 'what are you wearing?' text :p"

The other exception would be if, on your first few dates/meetups you two had been joking about sexting and about saying "what are you wearing?" to start sexting. In which case, sending that would be a funny way to acknowledge that inside joke and likely get a flirty, sexual convo going.
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Cool, solid tip, thanks. I don't have much to talk about with her right now, but I will just chill til I meet up with her soon.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zion said:
You didn't even kiss her but think you'll have success with sexting? are you serious dude?
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I have success at lots of stupid things I do haha. Come to think of it, the last chick I was sexting with, I had sex with her first and sexted later. I was thinking of reversing the order this time but apparently there is some kissing expectation first. Don't worry, travesty avoided, I didn't text her that.
 
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MountainSlide said:
Yo man she's a shy girl!
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Shy girls want to kiss and have sex as much as outgoing girls do.

It's all based on interest and attraction.

With shy girls you have to lead them a little more but they won't refuse kisses or sex when they want it.

I wouldn't text anything stupid like that to her.

Continue to meet other girls and keep it going with her but make sure you get some kisses on this next date from her.

Good Luck!
 
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