"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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quick question on wat something means

coffin

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a girl i know broke it off with her bf. she is saying she isnt looking for a relationship but just wants to have a good time. first off ive never asked her out or said i wanted a relationship. then she was talkin to some1 else about y men cant just be friends and then flirts with me all day. doesnt make sense to me any input?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Start some touching with her and eventually you'll wind up bangin' her.

Then you can both decide what to do from there.

She wants it right now, you'll get friend zoned if you leave it much longer.

EDIT: Tease her a little, make her want you.
 

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i have been doin kino and teasin her. ill put my arm around her and she puts her head on my shoulder. pick her up and carry her to the door, nudge her into somthin just playin around but u think itll work?
 
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