"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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quick question on relationships

skaterguy97

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hi guys how are you all tonight? what are some good ways to project to a girl you have been with forever that she doesnt have you, so she will work harder to keep you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zooey

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So you want to start acting like your girl doesn't have you so she goes "oh man, something's going wrong in the relationship, I better work hard or else I'm getting dumped?" IMHO, that sounds like emotional manipulation and the complete wrong way to keep a girl. Keep her happy that is.

Don't get me wrong, I get what you're wanting. A guy who can just walk away from a situation he isn't happy with is infinitely more attracted than someone who can't. But that doesn't mean you can't be happy with a situation and show it. I'm more than willing to tell a girl that I'm hers. But she knows at the same time that I'm not going to take any **** and if I get more than what I think is appropriate - I'm out of there.

Have you been acting like she does have you? If you suddenly flip-flop and get all "I'm no-one's girl" then she is going to freak. Do you want her to be your girl? I think there comes a point where, if you want the girl to be your girl, you've got to go, "your my girl, and I'm your man...now go down on me!"
 

skaterguy97

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yes to be honest i have gotten too complacent in the relationship and she knows im hers therefore she tries to pull **** she wouldnt before which i still dont put up with but i would like to get the power back a bit so to speak if that makes any sense
 
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