"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quick question on leaving the ball in a girls court. Help asap, would be cool.

Yuma

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I picked up this girl last Friday and we hit it off pretty well. Seen her a couple of times since, not socially just in passing. I ran into her at the mall.

She said she'd keep in touch, but... nothing. She seemed really interested, but I'm not in the mood to wait around. There are better things on the horizon, but I actually like her. She's got a wicked sense of humor and she's pretty smart. and hot as fvck.

So, I was about to drop her something on myspace. But, I dunno what to say. any takers?

And please, none of this "well, you're just an AFC" bullsh*t. I'd like some genuine answers.

Thanks, guys. I really appreciate it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MisterMcGee

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Uh, ask her out. You can't just wait for a girl to make a move in these situations. Make things simple for yourself.
 

Pimp-sicle

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I'm lost here..... did you call he again and she hasn't responded?? If you haven't YOU, the man, should take the initiative and set up another date. Why would you ever think it was the girl's job to call you and ask you out?

Little tip; until you fuvk a girl or she REALLY REALLY likes you, don't expect her to call you. Now pick up your phone and set up another date, before you let this opportunity pass you....



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