"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quick question on blogs....

Ricky

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If I want to create a blog, for my eyes only, what is the chances of creating one and keeping it private?

Is this even an option? The only reason I'd want to have one is so I could access it easily from other computers.

Plus creating a blog that is more like a multilayered web page would be good for me.

For instance, I like to do things like log sets and reps in my workouts. I can easily create a word document that links to spreadsheet documents containing such data, but not sure how well this would work on a blog format.

ANy advice would be greatly appreciated.

Adding audio to it would be awesome as well.

In the end i want to create the possibility of getting to alot of notes and study materials when away from home or my laptop.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smooth Player 056

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This stuff usually comes back to bite you in the ass. I can see the benifits of having a personal online blog...bet you never know, someone may read it, lets say you acces it and all of a sudden your distracted and leave......someone could check the URL HISTORY and find your blog.

You may want to consider a password on it, but people still may read it if the password is saved by accident (happens a lot).

All of this is hypothetical, and probably will not happen....but I suggest being aware of some problems that may occur.


Another suggestion is keep it anonymous......that way nobody will ever know it is you.

~Smooth
 
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