BPH said:
Ok so for those of you that know HB Amanda, I invited her to come swim at my pool today. Initially she said she couldn't because she was with her friend Sam(antha).
I texted her back and now she's asking if she and her friend can both come swim.
I know that dates never involve friends when it comes to girls, so I'm asking you guys...how do I play this?
The quicker the answer the better.
You can't really say no about her bringing a friend too. I mean you could play the, "I only want to see YOU" card, but I've never had that work. I recommend that you be a gracious host and welcome both of them over.
I was first going to say invite a guy friend over for the other girl, but HELL NO. Don't go there. This is your chance to game two of them at once and gain enourmous value for yourself. No need to introduce a c*ckblocker.
Basically, under the circumstances, you want to be the coolest pool party host ever. (Just don't try TOO hard.) Go swimming, maybe cook some burgers on the grill, play some fun club music, etc. Just make it fun. Joke around, tease them, etc. It's your place. Take the lead and show them both the best time ever.
Done properly, one of two things can happen:
1. Both girls will be attracted to you and competing for your attention.
2. One girl will lean on you more and the other will be more distant. In other words, the more interested one will make it clear to you that she is interested.
Good luck bro.
