"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quick Question for a Friend

Furnezz

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Hey all. Quick question. So my friend won't lsiten to me, there's this chick he likes and talks to a lot. He was telling me about it and usually whenever he has to go she'll say like "nooo... =( stay!" and so he ends up staying. What I've been telling him to do is to walk away/hang up or w.e. whenever she does that; he inists that 'he can't do that to her' so he ends up staying for a lot longer. Now I think this is AFC, because:
  • He says he has to go do something important and then ends up staying, which I think makes him look worse?
  • It's giving her the dominance
  • Potentially takes away from future conversations, and so she'll slowly become bored (becuase they talk for too long).

Lol I know it's a dumb thing, but I'm just curious as to what the AFC thing to do here would be.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SomethingClever

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I wouldn't say it's AFC, but it will lead to that and your friend we'll eventually get LJBF'd. You should knock some sense into your friend. But then again, maybe he needs to learn the hardway.
 

Furnezz

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Yeah that's what I thought. Ty ^^. He's trying too hard to be the sensitive guy who gives the girl anything she asks for [in HS o_O] =/
 

Triple T

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Tell him to tease her with this, she seems to be needy of him and hes giving in too easily. Tell him it'll be more fun.

If shes like "NOOO staaay! :(" then he should say something like "whats in it for me ;)"

or "what makes you think your so special hmm? :p"

Something fun like that. He'll gain the power, he might even get some action ;).
 
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