"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quick question about weightlifting

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What is the difference between using high weight with few reps and low weight with many reps? I've heard that it has a different effect on your body and muscles, but I'm not sure exactly what.

For example, does one gain more muscle, while the other is better for weightloss?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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High weight, few reps = mass/strength
Low weigth, many reps = endurance/strength

Remember, nutrition is the final factor that's going to determine whether you gain/lose weight. Without proper nutrition, no weightlifting workout is beneficial.
 

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Actually...

HEAVY weight + Few Reps + Long Recovery = Strength (you won't necesarily enlarge muscle fibres training for strength, Think of 5'6 168lb female power lifters that squat over 600lbs)

Moderate Weight + More than a few reps + Moderate Recovery = Mass

Light Weight + Lots of reps + Little Recovery = Aerobic (Endurance)
 

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Females aren't a good example though, lack of test etc.

Doing your compounds in the 3-5 rep range coupled with assistance in the 8-15 rep range will do a great job for most people in getting a mix of strength and size.

Although legs blow up on 20 rep sets.
 

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This is all too general...Muscles will grow with both high and low reps. Think 20rep squats and 3RM squats, both will make your legs grow over time.

Basically, gaining muscle just boils down to getting progressively stronger over time. Get stronger on the important lifts and train with enough volume, eat properly, and you'll add muscle

edit: good response from quagmire as usual
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quagmire, I'm doing 35-40rep leg presses at the moment as well, which EFFORT seems to approve of :D
 

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shaunuk said:
Quagmire, I'm doing 35-40rep leg presses at the moment as well, which EFFORT seems to approve of :D
Yeh I've heard of 50 rep leg press too, sounds nuts :)
 
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