"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quick question about HB8

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HB8 wants me to go over to her house to watch movies. Should I go to her house where she has a roomate and could have friends over or should i have her come over to my house which is dirty and has just a matress on the floor?

Usually I go to the girls house but that's usually definately for sex and while I am pretty sure this girl will set this situation up right she has flip flopped between relationship type lingo and friends with benefit type lingo.

Educated quesses need not apply. I need solid advice.

Thanks guys....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you want? You guys here seem to have no backbone. If you want that chic to come over, ask her over. If you want to go over, go over. Your a ****ing man do what you want to do. If she ain't feeling coming over, call someone else. geez. you want me to tell you how to **** her too? Grab yer balls and man up in life.

stop being scared.


btw. its all educated guess...we ain't you.

quit asking other men to tell you what to do in YOUR life. Live and learn! key word... LIVE!

If I tell you what to do, your living my life buddy. Man makes his own decisions and learns from em. Be a man.
 

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Warrior74 said:
What do you want? You guys here seem to have no backbone. If you want that chic to come over, ask her over. If you want to go over, go over. Your a ****ing man do what you want to do. If she ain't feeling coming over, call someone else. geez. you want me to tell you how to **** her too? Grab yer balls and man up in life.

stop being scared.


btw. its all educated guess...we ain't you.

quit asking other men to tell you what to do in YOUR life. Live and learn! key word... LIVE!

If I tell you what to do, your living my life buddy. Man makes his own decisions and learns from em. Be a man.
Well, that pretty much sums it up. Not much left to say after that reply.

Clean your house and bring her there. No problem with the mattress. I fvcked plenty of HB's on a tripple fold out pad from Walmart. You can actually fvck better on a mattress. More stable, better leverage.
 

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Thanks for the tough love fella's

This is how I did it:

I called her up, talked about fish, congradulated her for being a patient gal, told her to meet me at hannaford where we will do some grocery shopping, so she can escape when she see's what a goofy **** I am -- and then if she stays like a fool -- we can go to my house. If she is feeling it we will stay -- if not we will go to her house.

That's how I roll. Big Pimpin. :up:
 

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Playboy said:
HB8 wants me to go over to her house to watch movies. Should I go to her house where she has a roomate and could have friends over or should i have her come over to my house which is dirty and has just a matress on the floor?

Usually I go to the girls house but that's usually definately for sex and while I am pretty sure this girl will set this situation up right she has flip flopped between relationship type lingo and friends with benefit type lingo.

Educated quesses need not apply. I need solid advice.

Thanks guys....
Go to her house, take some liquor and fukk her little HB8 brains out and the next morning you can sort things out with her. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JackPrescott said:
Go to her house, take some liquor and fukk her little HB8 brains out and the next morning you can sort things out with her. :up:
About to meet her -- Will at least give a FR -- at most may pop in during the situation.

This is common stuff for me, but for some reason I feel like a lil kid with this girl, this has been dragged out over several weeks!!
 
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