"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quick question about HB8

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HB8 wants me to go over to her house to watch movies. Should I go to her house where she has a roomate and could have friends over or should i have her come over to my house which is dirty and has just a matress on the floor?

Usually I go to the girls house but that's usually definately for sex and while I am pretty sure this girl will set this situation up right she has flip flopped between relationship type lingo and friends with benefit type lingo.

Educated quesses need not apply. I need solid advice.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you want? You guys here seem to have no backbone. If you want that chic to come over, ask her over. If you want to go over, go over. Your a ****ing man do what you want to do. If she ain't feeling coming over, call someone else. geez. you want me to tell you how to **** her too? Grab yer balls and man up in life.

stop being scared.


btw. its all educated guess...we ain't you.

quit asking other men to tell you what to do in YOUR life. Live and learn! key word... LIVE!

If I tell you what to do, your living my life buddy. Man makes his own decisions and learns from em. Be a man.
 
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Warrior74 said:
What do you want? You guys here seem to have no backbone. If you want that chic to come over, ask her over. If you want to go over, go over. Your a ****ing man do what you want to do. If she ain't feeling coming over, call someone else. geez. you want me to tell you how to **** her too? Grab yer balls and man up in life.

stop being scared.


btw. its all educated guess...we ain't you.

quit asking other men to tell you what to do in YOUR life. Live and learn! key word... LIVE!

If I tell you what to do, your living my life buddy. Man makes his own decisions and learns from em. Be a man.
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Well, that pretty much sums it up. Not much left to say after that reply.

Clean your house and bring her there. No problem with the mattress. I fvcked plenty of HB's on a tripple fold out pad from Walmart. You can actually fvck better on a mattress. More stable, better leverage.
 
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Thanks for the tough love fella's

This is how I did it:

I called her up, talked about fish, congradulated her for being a patient gal, told her to meet me at hannaford where we will do some grocery shopping, so she can escape when she see's what a goofy **** I am -- and then if she stays like a fool -- we can go to my house. If she is feeling it we will stay -- if not we will go to her house.

That's how I roll. Big Pimpin. :up:
 
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HB8 wants me to go over to her house to watch movies. Should I go to her house where she has a roomate and could have friends over or should i have her come over to my house which is dirty and has just a matress on the floor?

Usually I go to the girls house but that's usually definately for sex and while I am pretty sure this girl will set this situation up right she has flip flopped between relationship type lingo and friends with benefit type lingo.

Educated quesses need not apply. I need solid advice.

Thanks guys....
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Go to her house, take some liquor and fukk her little HB8 brains out and the next morning you can sort things out with her. :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JackPrescott said:
Go to her house, take some liquor and fukk her little HB8 brains out and the next morning you can sort things out with her. :up:
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About to meet her -- Will at least give a FR -- at most may pop in during the situation.

This is common stuff for me, but for some reason I feel like a lil kid with this girl, this has been dragged out over several weeks!!
 
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