"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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quick question about calling her

spudmuffin

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hey guys, theres this girl that its obvious she likes me... no question... Im also starting to get the ****y funny thing down so i can call her to set up a date pretty easilly.... the only thing im questionig is Ive waited about 12 days to call her because the timing never works out... should i just call her like it hasnt been that long or is there something i need to say? hey if you can help thnx guys, this has been on my mind, i still need to learn some things... -spudmuffin
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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adit

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If its obvious that she likes you,you dont have to worry about telling her 'why you were late to call her'.Chances are,she's been really very anxious for your call and would be happy to take your call since she likes you.

Setting up a date with a girl who likes you is also a piece of cake,all you have to do is tell them where you'll be meeting and they'll make it.
 

08aisaac

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True that. Setting up a date in real life works well too. That's how I roll.
 

08aisaac

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It may sound weird, but say you see a chick for a few seconds, just tell her what you want to do later that day. And be like, I'll call you to finalize everything.
 
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