quick question about being alpha..

[themaster07]

I seem to have this uncanny ability to really REALLY infuriate girls when i'm alpha,intentionally of course.. so i only do it if i couldnt care less,and i often get called an ******* or the best one was "egocentric prick" and i keep getting called upmyself and that,but my question is..

if a girl really tries to get at you in a text or email and is just going off at you,what would a proper dj do?? would he come back with a short but funny come back,or just not reply at all? i use a bit of both but i just wanna hear oppinions cause im in that situation right now cheers

 

[Stuntmann]

Call her back whenever you want, and have her hang out with you, or dinner at your place, at her place, whatever appropriate.

E-mail, text back, is not what must be done. Even a phone conversation isn't the cheese, only if to setup things.


You can throw a cheesy line at her when you call her, like "Hey, what you wearing?"



You're aware of why no texting or e-mail, or even phone thing. It is my believe that when they have your number and just e-mail or text you, they are sh1t testing you. Whether it's true or not, I don't know, but I take it as a sh1t test that I pass by ignoring, or calling.

You must be decisive when you call. She could be texting you out of university, and you call her back, she don't pick up. That's her fault, must be punished for that. She can't make it to hang out with you tonight, she's just screwing it all up, and loosing you.

 

[themaster07]

ohh ok thanks for the reply,i think theres been a misunderstanding.. i shouldve worded it better,but i mean when the girl is going off at you,like yelling and stuff,im pretty good with playing alpha with girls i wanna f*ck,just not sure exactly how to remain alpha when your getting yelled at or abused online/in person

 

[Stuntmann]

Online ignore. In person don't take it, remain calm, don't argue. There would be rational stuff at her face, yelling at you, and then there is that other person, her emotions. Say something short that speaks what you want directly to that.


Like, "You're cute when you yell". Combined with look, and calm assertive self.


"You know, you'd make a bad mother, because you're not making any sense. Good bye, you're loosing me."

 

[reset]

...im pretty good with playing alpha with girls i wanna f*ck,just not sure exactly how to remain alpha when your getting yelled at or abused online/in person

Maybe they can sense that you're only "playing" alpha and are trying to see if you're really the guy you pretend to be?

Calm, cool, collected, decisive, never angry but firm and direct, mixed in with a little humor. Not always an easy thing to do, but it can be a deadly combination to a girl. Because they are trying to shake you.

 

[themaster07]

Maybe they can sense that you're only "playing" alpha and are trying to see if you're really the guy you pretend to be?

Calm, cool, collected, decisive, never angry but firm and direct, mixed in with a little humor. Not always an easy thing to do, but it can be a deadly combination to a girl. Because they are trying to shake you.

It's not really that,i'm still kind of developing my alpha game,but i seem to have a different side to me,i can turn alpha on and off,with girls hb7 and under i can play the smoothest game with,but hb8-10s still can sometimes throw me off my game,but im always improving ive had alot of girls latley,and my life goals and current daily life are perfect,couldn't be happier.

I'm growing concerned with my increasingly large ego,once again its only with girls and socially,i'm invulerable to critisim i love it

 

[reset]

An "alpha" who walks around thinking he's better than other people, shows insecurity. Just like an AFC who walks around thinking other people are better than him, shows insecurity. That ego always seems to get in the way.

Your core personality isn't something you turn on or off, it's something you develop. You want to be the best you, 24-7. Take the alpha traits you have that are GENUINE, and work on developing them. And don't be afraid to develop that other side too.

Being invulnerable to criticism is great. Just make sure you don't fall into that other habit of criticising others.