"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quick phone call

Smoke Screen

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Hello!

I called this girl who i met friday 1.2 and changed phone numbers with.
First she answers her phone says her name and then i introduce myself.
I say that she gave me her number friday, she responses that she dosent remember that she gave her number to anyone that night and says that she is busy cleaning her "new" house and cant talk right now about 4 seconds after that she hangs up her phone.
I dont have even time to say goodbye or anything, she hangs up her phone so fast.
I even gave her my old business card that night and said that i put it to ur purse so u dont lose it.

I was planning to call her tomorrow and explain that i dont like that she hangs up phone like that or it is better call her later this evening or leave this behind?

This happened to anyone else?
 

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Plutoman

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No interest, she was either drunk and forgot she gave her number out, or regretted it later.

Leave it behind. In Roosh's book he mentions cases like this..

"There will be times when a girl answers your first call but realizes she doesn’t want to talk to you. What she’s going to do is say, “Hey let me give you a call back, I’m doing blah blah blah,” before one minute of conversation. Of course this is bull**** because she wouldn’t have answered her phone from an unknown number if she wasn’t ready to talk. You will be tempted to say something like, “Oh okay call me back when you get the chance.” Instead just say, “Alright bye,” and hang up the phone. It’s over."
 
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