"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
If you're an introspective enough person to come here looking for real solutions and trying to better yourself, you are more interesting than 95% of the sheeple out there I assure you.
i know i have intelligence and i am also very introspective. im definitely working on improving myself but ive been building rapport in this less than desirable social circle but i think ill see how this plays out. im in quite a pivotal time in my life. lots of stuff going on

thanks everyone whos been following! i seriously appreciate the support and input! :rock:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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basically as soon as i opened the door they smelled the weed and had probable cause to search. i mean they did ened a warrant but my mom who has her nme on the lease got in contact with them and okayed the search. i told them they could not come in with out a warrant myself.
Ok that leads me to my original question: How did your neighbors know you had weed...did the smell go through the walls or something:confused:

EDIT: And for the drugs advice, Weed is fine. It actually in my experience helps you talk to women without being nervous and gives you a billion things to talk to them about so the conversation will never go dull. Any other drug is bad
 

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Ok that leads me to my original question: How did your neighbors know you had weed...did the smell go through the walls or something:confused:

EDIT: And for the drugs advice, Weed is fine. It actually in my experience helps you talk to women without being nervous and gives you a billion things to talk to them about so the conversation will never go dull. Any other drug is bad
Like I said it was originally a noise complaint. I have her drink next to me in bed right now. She's on her computer. When the times right I was thinking about just asking "what would you do if I kissed you right now?" in a really smart sexy voice. Any other tips?
 
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Don't ask!! just do it.. if her back is turned to you, reach around and hug her from behind, pull her hair back and start kissing the space between her neck and shoulder
 

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Like I said it was originally a noise complaint. I have her drink next to me in bed right now. She's on her computer. When the times right I was thinking about just asking "what would you do if I kissed you right now?" in a really smot sexy voice. Any other tips?
Ahh....when this is all over you should throw a brick through ur neighbors window in the middle of the night...

I would be pissed of my neighbors did that :box:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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okay so basically im turning into the emotional tampon that i always do. shes sleeping next to me. bodies up against eachother like normal couples yet i make no moves first off because i cant think of how to initiate sexual tension between two people and second because she's basically starting to get me locked into the friends zone.

today before she left my house to go get a tattoo we we're chatting and i brought up how i need to get laid. then she agreed in excitement and proceeded to tell me how shes been trying to **** my alpha friend but shes just sucked his **** 4 times and whenever they got close to him ****ing her, he couldnt get it in and then he told her he wasnt attracted to her. she was also telling me how she never sucked my friend matts **** even though he was telling people he did. she was really sad about it and i told her "its because theyre intimidated by you" and she said thats gonna make me cry and then she left my house. she'll be back later tho. how did i play this?

as a side note of info. she also told me that she is only attracted to guys who dont want her, and i said (because shes a stripper etc) basically all my friends are just normal kids that have never lived life and this ***** has been to miami been an extra in porn, stripping, aka a bunch of stuff that is kind of off putting for the rest of my friends. i personally think its pretty cool but idk where to go from here. i think ive been playing it alot better than i wouldve with any other girls haha

i kind of let a bit too much info bout myself out to her just to let you guys know. i told her ive only slept with a few girls (even tho im a virgin) but that i have trouble making emotional connections to people. made me look pretty beta

i handle this entire situation ina careless nonchalant manner. expect when i told her "theyre intimidated by you" because iw as getting annoyed with her. hopefully that makes her focus more on me rather than my more alpha buddy, although i know how these things normally play out so unless i can do something seriously pivotal im ****ed and will end up a virgin still after having a stripper sleeping in the same bed as me for 3 nights, at which point ill probably go ****ing kill myself.
 

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*facepalm*I hate to say this but i believe its about time you forget abt the girl. if you haven't tap that ass by now i doubt you'll ever do so. You have a girl in the same bed with you for three nights and you're yet to make a move!! forget abt techniques, experience, alpha, whether she ****ed your friend or not just FVCK her already. i see an invitation to the friendzone staring at you in the face bro and you're walking right into it. i feel you're overanalysing which is normal for guys who haven't much experience getting girls into bed but come on this is absurd. the only thing you can do to remedy the situation is to make a move now. srsly what's the worse that could happen? stop thinking and just do. at the very least start by kissing her and make progress from there. remember you're a sexual guy with needs not her gay boyfriend. I simply can't believe you'll let a stripper in your bed for three nights, not make a move then go jerk off to porn to release all that pent up sexual tension. i'm rooting for you, don't let me down
 

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Tip: if you watch porn or jerk off give it a break for some time. you don't make a move because you have an outlet for you sexual tension. if you're horny enough, believe me you'll try to get some
 

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ezio said:
Tip: if you watch porn or jerk off give it a break for some time. you don't make a move because you have an outlet for you sexual tension. if you're horny enough, believe me you'll try to get some
i havent watched porn or jacked off in like 4 days
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You guys are totally ****in right. results will be achieved tonight and posted tomorrow
 

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no results were achieved. i am chilling by myself at home after work while she is hanging out with all of my friends (theyre hers too but just saying)

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