alright. i know i'm awesome. i just need to get that out in the first line. i don't have deep game issues. i've been instilled since birth with the ideal that i am an amazing person in every possible aspect. however, having said that, every now and again, i run into a situation that makes me feel insecure. i realize this is tough to offer advice on because you guys don;t have any information about the situations and scenarios surrounding it, but im not sure you need information. does anyone have a quick little thing that they do that helps em deal with that feeling of not being good enough? as a bit of background, i am in a relationship. im a traditional guy who doesn't really believe in plate spinning if your in a committed relationship (so not an option); that's merely my belief, don't condemn me for it. thanks in advance for the help you guys.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
quick fixes for minor insecurities
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