"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wilko

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Sooo, after giving the seduction thing a bit of a break for a few months I find I'm in the best physical shape of my life, my wardrobe is looking mighty fine, I've made new friends, and I'm unstoppable at work. It's been so satisfying, that my dating situation, good or bad, just doesn't seem that important to me anymore. Naturally, results followed.

Well duh.

You can lead a horse to water as they say.

Anyway, last week I managed to get a fairly cute, fairly bright, 22 yr old Asian girl into bed on the first date. It was textbook stuff; I had my jacket on at the door quite ready to leave, then lo and behold, I'm inside her ten minutes later. The sex was ok, nothing remarkable, and there were none of the fun, optional extras I'm fond of.

Caught up again last night without the ****tail induced buzz or the overwhelming desire to get into her pants and.....man she was ANNOYING. Smart girl but she didn't so much talk as "squawk" at me. Then, thanks to some delayed anti-slvt defence she starts playing hard to get and I really wasn't in the mood to jump through any hoops to get some very average pvssy. To boot, I had a newly arrived shipment of crusty old sci-fi classics waiting for me at home.

Suffice to say, "Zardoz" was f@#%g awesome!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yo'Mama

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Ha ha ha good work man. Yeah a lot of the times I think our tolerance for girls is really high just because we're buzzed or horny. Take that away and DVDs start looking preferable.
 

Solomon

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What type of diet and works out u do? sad another FR getting slept on this site doesn't support FR's at all

shame
 

Wilko

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What type of diet and works out u do?
Thread derailment in 5,4,3,2....

Now I have to emphasise this is MY best shape, I'm still no Jason Statham. I walk, on average, about eight miles a day (that's each day, every day) It's just a great way to burn cals without over training or spiking stress hormones. During the walk I'll throw in a bunch of bodyweight exercises; lunges, pull-ups, push-ups and all manner of variations. I have a 30lb weighted backpack which I use for added resistance on "heavy" days.

I eat absolutely anything I want but I generally keep intake at or below 2000kcal. I avoid liquid calories save for one splurge every Friday. The net effect has been that I've dropped 25lbs in three months and I'm headed towards a Fight Club kind of physique (though I'm much wider and have shorter, thicker legs than Brad). Not that that was the goal at all, it just seems to be the direction my body is going in with this regime I've developed.

No sups, no restrictions, and no gym-time, that's just the way I like to do things.
 

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I always have solid respect for men who can walk away from pvssy they've already had for their own dignity.

Props to you, brother. The fact that you can entertain yourself with your own interests is a big plus, too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dear Wilco,
Or should we call you Barra for Barracuda,you circle for a while,then go in for the kill....I was reading the other Day on Citizen Renegade,that observations on frisky Rats....No connection with you Tee-Hee....Shows that after a Male chases a Female around for a while she will stop still and coyly allow his entry...Is that what happened here?....Asian Ladies in particular are very conscious of personal space...I would surmise,as you left she realised that you were slipping away and hovered unusually close?...in such circumstances you must reach out,pull her to you,and hug her for at least 30 seconds,then stroke her head,after she gets used to this you kiss her several times on the face gradually moving to the lips,simultaneously your hands move up and down around her rib cage....generally a minute or so of this and her defences will crumble....a Point though....Asian Girls,Chinese in particular are very sensitive about kissing...perhaps due to the prevalence of gum disease in their countries,so if she shies away from a full on kiss,but seems to be heating up anyway,don't push things,just forget about the lips,proceed as normal....another point....They are Ultra sensitive to the Odour of the Western Male in rut....I use Perfume,and I am not AC-DC I assure you....she is 22 that is young for an Asian Girl to commence full on Love Making my guess is she lacks experience....She will do WHATEVER you ask her to so train her,at her age you will easily mould her....As for personal Dignity,it makes a poor Breakfast and an even worse Supper.
 
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