"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quick Date Question

happymeal88

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Does taking a girl to a club work out as a date? I think it would be a great place to apply kino and if we go together, obvously we will dance together.

What's your guys take on going to the club as a date? :up: Yay or nay :down:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Muphaser

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Id say Nah, I only take a girl to the club if shes a pivot... cos whos to say you wont see ass that you want there??

Take her for a walk in a park or for a coffee bro
 

shydude

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Bad idea dude!! A lot of horny guys are in the clubs!! And she probably wont fell comfortable enough!! Take her to club after u get the hang of her!!! Take her to an amusement park, or for a walk or for a cup of coffe or to a museum.. Somewhere fun!! Not the movies!!! MOvies suck for first dates or even sec.. U cant get to know here there~~~Good luck
 

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Loud places suck for first dates anyhow, I put this on the other post that's the exact same as this one too.
 

happymeal88

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This wouldn't be a first date... We've gone on a bunch of dates (5 or 6) in the past couple of months.

I agree about the other guys being problems, I don't know though... I was thinking of telling her it was her audition for prom.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Subjective

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Ah, if it's not a first date, then maybe it'll be okay. Other guys? Don't worry about them. If you want, though, you can make moves on the other girls there. ;-)
 
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