"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CrazyAsianBiker

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Ok well I'm getting it all back but right now I'm still a little rusty. (been in an LTR.)

But my idea is to take her to a fun half amusement park, half resturaunt area.

This is a FIRST date though..... And tickets are about 18 dollars a person.

That's not including arcades, food etc. Is this too much for a first date?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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Act like money means nothing to you,but dont spend it on her. Example,a chick says "Hey I like that shirt" while you guys are there,dont buy it for her,say "you have a job". Most chumps would buy her the shirt and besides she hasnt even put out for you yet.
 
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