"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Been trolling on here for some months, really learning a lot from you guys.

Quick story short I met this girl at a club. We danced talked and I pulled her number when I left. Last Wednesday I call her and set up a date for Saturday night. Saturday afternoon she sends a text saying she couldn't make it. Text message was kind of dry. She didn't mention rescheduling just cancelled.

Should I just next her or try meeting her again? I'm interested in her.how do you guys think I should proceed with this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The pride in me says to next her. An interested girl should never cancel a date without a counteroffer. But hey, if you want to go balls-to-the-wall, then try rescheduling. If she doesn't respond, then you know for sure no to pursue her.

Oh, and f*** Saturday night dates. Girls have to earn that night of the week.
 
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What did you respond? Have you responded? It is already monday.

The best thing to have done was to tell her to call you or for you to call her. Either way, looks like she has very low interest. Women with high interest don't cancel, and if they have to, they counter offer and make an effor to reschedule right away.
 
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I responded with "ok we can reschedule" to which she responded "ok cool". Another dry response. Haven't heard from her since.
 
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gstar22 said:
I responded with "ok we can reschedule" to which she responded "ok cool". Another dry response. Haven't heard from her since.
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Off course you haven't heard from her yet. You won't. That type of response you sent just leaves you hanging. Now, you must keep pursuing and contacting her, like a begging puppy.

How about a "How will you make it up to me?", her answer will get you what you want. Either she starts jumping your hoops or you'll know she is definitely not interested and can stop wasting your time.

You gave her a very predictable "Whatever you want is ok with me, as long as you go out with me. I would feel so privilege to go out with you" type of response. Wether that's what you meant or not, that's how it comes across.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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