“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quick advice requested (The Day after)....

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The day after hooking up with a girl (i.e. sex), you should call her. This is what I've heard from many.

Well what I want to know is, I called her, but I knew she was going to be busy and she was so I only left her a message. I told her to call me, but she hasn't yet.

I would like to call her today to get her on the phone, but don't want to come off as needy.

Should I try to get ahold of her today again? Because I haven't got her on the phone yet. The phone is her home phone and I don't think she has caller ID on that one, but I could be wrong. If I was sure it was her cell phone I probably wouldn't since it would be listed as a missed call.

Isn't it ridiculous. You have sex with a girl, but you still worry about the rules of the game and not coming off as needy?

What do you advise? Quick replies requested.
 
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You called and left a message. Wait a week. If she has not called, call her one more time. If she still does not call. Get the hint.
 
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Wow and this is after sex. Damn. It's amazing the games women play too.

Did I mention I told her I was in the middle of a breakup with my girlfriend.

You're right though she may not be interested. I would like to at least get her on the phone.

I have had this problem before with women not calling back. But not typically after sex.
 
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Originally posted by Ricky
The day after hooking up with a girl (i.e. sex), you should call her. This is what I've heard from many.

What do you advise? Quick replies requested.
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Who said you should call her the day after? I don't advocate that. It makes you seem needy and desperate. I would've waited an extra day, it sometimes makes all the difference in the world.
 
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Doc Love said to call the next day. Other people on here have said to as well.

I also told her I'd call the next day. She said she would be busy playing volleyball, so I knew I would have trouble getting ahold of her.

She also told me to break up with my girlfriend if I'm interested in going out with her. I did admit I had a girlfriend. Not the smartest thing to do but I was feeling a bit of guilt. Nonetheless I am about to break up with my girlfriend, not for this girl or any other girl but for my own sanity.

Tonight she said she would be free. I've been waiting a bit hoping she'd call (tons of other people have been calling me).

One thing that gives me hope is about 2 hours after I left her place (in the afternoon Sunday after a late night Saturday hookup), my friend already knew about it. Because he dates a girl who is friends with the girl I met.
 
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Originally posted by Ricky
I've been waiting a bit hoping she'd call (
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Oh man mistake #2 ! :eek: You need a bible refresher
 
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Originally posted by Ricky
Isn't it ridiculous. You have sex with a girl, but you still worry about the rules of the game and not coming off as needy?

What do you advise? Quick replies requested.
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You do not need to worry about the getting back in touch with her if you cover the 'next steps' with her before she leaves. I don't mean AFC moves either. You should at least re-examine her IL and act appropriately.
 
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UPDATE....

Good news fellas. She just called me. She got home late from volleyball last night and didn't want to wake me up.

We chatted for a bit and if she cancels out on some plans for Friday we might be going out that night. I will speak to her Thursday about this. I told her what I'm doing Friday, and I will do this regardless of whether she cancels her plans or not.

I'm just glad she called me and I didn't have to call her back. I was probably going to wait until she called back anyways. Feels good she called back tonight.

Now the bad part, me and my girlfriend are still together. I hate breaking up. That's for another post.
 
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Originally posted by Ricky

Now the bad part, me and my girlfriend are still together. I hate breaking up. That's for another post.
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Its not that hard

Ricky: Im breaking up with you. I wanna see other people
Girl: Bla bla bla bla
Ricky. Im sorry. Look i gotta go, if I wanna ever talk to you I will call you. Don't call me.
Girl : Bla bla bla
Ricky: Gotta go. Bye.
 
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