Quick Advice Needed On Texting

[JohnChops]

Whats up guys so I have a question about texting, I may be over-analyzing this, but im curious as to see what you guys think.

So ive been texting this girl for a bit, and we usually only text at night because im to busy to even look at my phone during the day. So everytime I text her, at night we have a good conversation, but then at some point the conversation dies and she doesnt even text me back the next day.

Example of This:
Background - her mom texts me from time to time ( no idea why) and we talk about like metal bands and sh1t because shes into that. So anyway, I was comparing her to her mom and telling her how her mom is better than her, teasing her, keeping it lite and fun. She knows her mom texts me and she teases me about it, how I should go for her etc (joking of course ) And heres the end of the conversation.

Her (11:00pm Aug 9th) : So you're saying you want me to text you more and then ill be better than my mom? .
Me (11:18pm Aug 9th) : It wouldn't hurt your chances .

And then she hasnt texted me back since I said that. Is it bad to text her again( its 3:06 pm Aug 10th, the next day) to start up a conversation?

I remember Mr.SomeoneElse saying how we are men, we are supposed to initiate conversation if we want too.

Am I over analyzing this stupid double text rule sh1t?

Also did I kill the conversation by not giving her anything to follow up on ?

Im just curious . Please reply with some witty and helpful information

-JohnChops

 

[TRSX]

better choose to bang the mom or the daughter.

and apply the game correctly.

But to answer your question, be direct and have a purpose with your text.
"Theres a cool spot I've been wanting to try out, beers, 8pm, thursday." or w/e

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Her Mom texts you???!! LOLLLL

Wow thought I've heard it all, but this is a new one.

In either case, you need to stop being so predictable.

Your on the fast path to becoming her text buddy if you are texting her every night.

Instead learn a thing or two from her.

Text her a couple nights and flirt, END THE CONVERSATION FIRST.

Whether that means not replying to a text (usually when they send something that isn't a question, I stop responding) or saying you gotta jet.

Then don't text her for a couple days..... that will get her curious and make her initiate contact with you.... because your giving her the gift of missing you.


However when you text her every night, she has no reason to text you because she KNOWS you will text her.


If you want this girl, you gotta beat her at her own game, otherwise your going to be in the friend zone fast.



Lastly instead of all this texting; be a man and ask her to hang out after you have flirted with her well and she is LOLing at all your jokes. Then you can progress instead of just being a name in a shiny cell phone.








PIMP

 

[JohnChops]

better choose to bang the mom or the daughter.

and apply the game correctly.

But to answer your question, be direct and have a purpose with your text.
"Theres a cool spot I've been wanting to try out, beers, 8pm, thursday." or w/e

Eh I only use the mom thing to tease her about it, though it wouldnt be hard to bang the mom haha. Its raining here, kinda bored, maybe I should just see if she wants to go out tonight, im actually free for once.

TRSX where do you stand on that double text rule? BS or something to live by?

@Pimp- yeah kinda wish I wasnt 19 so I could be like hey lets go to the bar. Ill find something creative to do or just hang with her. I dont really text her every night, I text her every couple of days. Thanks pimp. Like the advice. And yeah her mom like wants me HAHA its fvcking funny man. I want to send you the convos, there great. I laugh so hard when I see her name pop up on my notification bar of texts.

 

[TRSX]

I wasn't kidding. once you start banging the daughter you can't really get back to the mom (if she knows.) Just a choice brah. Sounds like her mom wants your d!ck, they dont just text to have conversations, thats where you come in. If her mom is hot, i recommend the mom - older chicks are way easier, gets your heart racing more because you're not supposed to do it, and they are freaks sometimes! But if you like the daughter, then definitely do not do it.

There are no rules for texting. You can double text if you want but remember you want to keep her IL high. So texting to a minimum doesn't give you away so much. Gotta stay the mystery man! They act like it pisses em off, but its a turn on. You want her to get to know you in person, not over a phone. Text with value, purpose, and have fun with it (keep it light.)

Goodluck soldier.

 

[JohnChops]

I wasn't kidding. once you start banging the daughter you can't really get back to the mom (if she knows.) Just a choice brah. Sounds like her mom wants your d!ck, they dont just text to have conversations, thats where you come in. If her mom is hot, i recommend the mom - older chicks are way easier, gets your heart racing more because you're not supposed to do it, and they are freaks sometimes! But if you like the daughter, then definitely do not do it.

There are no rules for texting. You can double text if you want but remember you want to keep her IL high. So texting to a minimum doesn't give you away so much. Gotta stay the mystery man! They act like it pisses em off, but its a turn on. You want her to get to know you in person, not over a phone. Text with value, purpose, and have fun with it (keep it light.)

Goodluck soldier.

Thats usually how I keep it, nothing really personal or serious over text, only in person. Ha yeah I like the daughter, but if i could keep it a secret it wouldnt be a bad idea . So pretty much the purpose would be flirting so when you meet up you already have some intimacy built up.

daughter > mom on the looks area