"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
This is most men's downfall - we take toooooo much interest in a woman who isn't reciprocating interest in us and lose our dignity in the process of the chase by not knowing when to stop our pursuit!! Take a hint and leave her alone!!! Only talk to her if SHE calls you to take you up on your offer!!!
Now I understand why some people call you Doctor PRL! ;)

Perfect.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Now I understand why some people call you Doctor PRL! ;)

Perfect.
Unfortunately, I can omly prescribe the medicine for the ailment but I cannot force its' consumption!!!
 

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Dr. P, it's been on my mind still because people are just telling me I should call her. Her cousin (my good friend) wanted an update on the situation. I told him the story and told him I wouldn't call her. Her number is off my phone! He told me there could be three ways this could go around in the next few days

1.) I call her when she dosen't want me to, and she loses more respect for me. She cancelles again and I NEVER call her again.

2.) She's waiting for me to call and I call her. He tells me that she expects the guy to be agressive when it comes to her. (She's old fashioned, like I said before)

3.) She dosen't call when she said she will and expects me to call. I never call. We're both disapointed.

People are filling my head with doubts and anticipation. This is less about her and more about me. I don't think this was ever about her. I fucked up big time. What can I do? Go for it? Or just walk away? I've chosen to walk away, but people keep telling me I have a chance.

Doc, I might call her next Wednsday. Is that bad?
 
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Not being rejected directly and bluntly always leaves the man in doubt - I understand your anxiety; however, you made 3v or 4 attempts over 5 weeks and no affirmation on her part - the odds of success are low if you call again. I know what you are saying, "The odds are low so that means I still have a chance!"

OK you lonely desperate bastard - in this LAST attempt the way you go about it should not be through a phone call but try to see her at a function or gathering place where you can bump into her and then see if she gives you any signals.

If you have a common acquaintance have him/her do some reconnaissance and see where she 'hangs' out and/or if they see her they should mention your name to her and see what her response is and her expression or lack thereof! More knowledge of her feelings and attitude will help save you embarassment and being overbearing!
 
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