"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Questions regarding alpha males...

SeymourCake

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Can there be a group full of Alpha males or will their ranks change from who's the most confident, successful, assure of himself, and etc?

Is it possible to change your hierarchy rank or is it something you are born into due to genetics?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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There is always one alpha male of any group. At any time a beta male can challenge the alpha for that position.

No one is always an alpha male in every situation of their life, its always changing.
 

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Some situations you will be alpha, whilst others you can be the omega (lowest in group)

you can become more alpha, but it will take time, and if you have an already established social group hierarchy, the guys that are more alpha than you may not "like" your new alphaness...and may AMOG you... to put you “back in your place”

Try not to be confrontational with it = unnecessary friction

If you can get them on good terms they will offer less resistance to the new more assertive you, if you have something of value they see in you that benefits them as well (e.g. game) it will help you a lot

For example use your new DJ lady skills and involve them in picking up chicks (or do things like Open it for them) when at a bar, they associate you with getting chicks = very high value = acceptance of your alpha position.

There are other things besides Game you could use as a Demonstration Of High Value
 

Kirro

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SeymourCake said:
Can there be a group full of Alpha males or will their ranks change from who's the most confident, successful, assure of himself, and etc?

Is it possible to change your hierarchy rank or is it something you are born into due to genetics?
It depends. Say that there is a group of 4 dudes with strong alpha traits.

Each of these 4 dudes is the leader of 4 different other groups then all of them are on equal terms.

However if it is just 4 dudes, the strongest will be the alpha, the weakest(of the group)will be the omega & the ones in between the beta.

As for improving your rank that depends. Some men are born into leadership directly, others are born to develop the ability but most are doomed to follow.
 
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