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Can there be a group full of Alpha males or will their ranks change from who's the most confident, successful, assure of himself, and etc?

Is it possible to change your hierarchy rank or is it something you are born into due to genetics?
 

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There is always one alpha male of any group. At any time a beta male can challenge the alpha for that position.

No one is always an alpha male in every situation of their life, its always changing.
 
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Some situations you will be alpha, whilst others you can be the omega (lowest in group)

you can become more alpha, but it will take time, and if you have an already established social group hierarchy, the guys that are more alpha than you may not "like" your new alphaness...and may AMOG you... to put you “back in your place”

Try not to be confrontational with it = unnecessary friction

If you can get them on good terms they will offer less resistance to the new more assertive you, if you have something of value they see in you that benefits them as well (e.g. game) it will help you a lot

For example use your new DJ lady skills and involve them in picking up chicks (or do things like Open it for them) when at a bar, they associate you with getting chicks = very high value = acceptance of your alpha position.

There are other things besides Game you could use as a Demonstration Of High Value
 
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SeymourCake said:
Can there be a group full of Alpha males or will their ranks change from who's the most confident, successful, assure of himself, and etc?

Is it possible to change your hierarchy rank or is it something you are born into due to genetics?
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It depends. Say that there is a group of 4 dudes with strong alpha traits.

Each of these 4 dudes is the leader of 4 different other groups then all of them are on equal terms.

However if it is just 4 dudes, the strongest will be the alpha, the weakest(of the group)will be the omega & the ones in between the beta.

As for improving your rank that depends. Some men are born into leadership directly, others are born to develop the ability but most are doomed to follow.
 
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