Alright so I've been going out with a chick who calls herself my girlfriend for around a month and a half now. Things are great, I'm utilizing my skills from the site very well. We see eachother once a week or so, and things are always very exciting. She goes to college about an hour away from me, she is from the town that I live in. So Tuesday she and I get off class at noon, and this tuesday we met up at my cabin and went to some random small town, got some grocery's and went back to my cabin and i grilled and she cooked bacon and baked a cake(and we shot some of my guns). But when we were making out after watching a movie she told me to scratch above her butt, and she went crazy. Stuff like that makes her even wilder than sexual stuff. She starts whispering stuff in my ear and all of that. So guys, What are some good things to do to surprise girls during making out and all of that. I had no idea that messing with her butt and could do that much, but every time I want her to get wet I cant just kiss her neck and rub on her butt. Has anyone ever posted a list of this kind of stuff on this site? I know about fingering and advanced sexual techniques and all that. But it's not like we're doing that the whole time we hang out. Like I went down to kiss her neck and instead I made a big fart noise on her neck and said in a dumb caveman voice "oh wait am i supposed to blow or suck", and she started laughing like crazy and about 30 seconds later she had my shorts off. And sometimes If she calls me I just start off answering the phone and everything with fart sounds until she gets really annoyed. What are some good tips like this to keep your girlfriend surprised and interested? Thanks a ton guys, I owe it all to you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Questions on girlfriend maintenance
- Thread starter harrysw
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
When she asked you to "scratch" above her butt, it might have been a little CONTROL game. You can't yield to many of these, but yes it will fill their ego and make them temporary crazy. If you yield too often to these bossing demands, she will lose interest.
I tell her to do stuff all the time, and I give her spankings when shes sassy, So i don't think that's a big problem. And 1 more question. When she says she went to workout or something and sends me a pic I'm always like "Good *****(her name)" and one time she said "I feel like I'm your pet when you say that" and I said "yeah, duh."(which is very vague but I didn't know what to say) She is a really good girl and really does try and prevail at making me happy, that cake was absolutely delicious for example, and the stuff after it. What are some good tactics other than saying "good girl" to reward good behavior? And should I tell even be telling her that I like the way she behaves when shes nice? Because when shes not being good I would never tell her I don't like the way shes acting, I just neg hit or pull away interest, instead of doing something direct like I do when shes behaves well.
BTW those are not light spankings, she loves it though.
BTW those are not light spankings, she loves it though.