"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Questions on first Date (Fastest way to know)

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Assuming you want long term relationship and you are on first date
You like her body,physically

List what questions you ask to get to know her Fastest on First Date

What do you Hate ? (can know more about her by her feelings)
What are very important things to you ?
What are your Relationship Deal Breakers ?
What is your Money Personality Type (Spender,Budget )
Do you like sex ,opinion on sex ?

Any Questions you would ask or ,SHOULD HAVE ASKED IN THE PAST ?
Any Other Questions that would have SAVED TIME in your PAST DATING ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Do you like sex?" REALLY? REALLY??

It's a date. Not an interrogation.
 

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If I'm thinking LTR which I am normally not, but I guess always trying to qualify for:

-Ask about her parents. See if she has a good relationship with her father. If not, this could be a red flag.
-Ask what she likes to do with her friends. If it seems like all she does it go to bars/clubs - could be a red flag. If it seems like she doesn't really have a lot of girlfriends - red flag.
-Ask about her job, where she works, etc.
-Ask about places she's been, vacations, etc.

DON'T ASK ABOUT:
-Past boyfriends
-Sexual experience
-"How do you think it's going (the date)"


You don't have to ask these directly, just ask a question. Then when she answers, ask another one related to that. Just let her talk.

Most importantly - have fun. It's a date not an interview.
 

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There is no way to get to know a woman "extra fast". Women will show you what they want you to see.

A more important question to ask YOURSELF is what exactly you hope to achieve with a "long-term" relationship and why you are so desperate to be in one.

Long-term relationships (good ones) need to happen organically and not be rushed. They are also a woman's domain. I argue that men have no natural desire to be in long-term relationships and the desire is actually a product societal brainwashing.

From what I've seen.. the men who get the best long-term relationships are the men who don't care about being in them. These are the men who just sport-f*cked until a certain woman gave them oneitis.

The men who actively seek long-term relationships are more likely to end up with domineering feminist c*nts (or fat chicks). :yes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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carrot said:
Assuming you want long term relationship and you are on first date
You like her body,physically

List what questions you ask to get to know her Fastest on First Date

What do you Hate ? (can know more about her by her feelings)
What are very important things to you ?
What are your Relationship Deal Breakers ?
What is your Money Personality Type (Spender,Budget )
Do you like sex ,opinion on sex ?
Dude are you serious with these questions. So generic and weird. "Do you like sex?" Really?

I think you'd be better off copying the questions from a doctor's patient form.

You're over thnking this and focusing too much on the what, and not enough on the how. As in, how she answers the questions is usually more important than what the actual answer is. In other words, if she gives you all the ideal answers you're looking for, but in a very boring and uninteresting way... do you actually want to keep seeing her? The questions themselves are not particularly important, so just ask whatever feels fun to talk about.
 

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The Only Question Rex Would Ask

What do you consider romantic?
 

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You're better off with light banter followed up with inserting open ended questions about how she feels about certain things that will get her emotions and hamster going. Create some tension with her responses and loaded questions. Once the alcohol starts kicking in - more banter and teasing until she hates you, loves you, and wants your tongue/**** in her mouth.

This is not a f*ckin job interview - she wants a fun guy who doesn't give a f*ck, a little over the top, entitled and overconfident.

All the relationship qualities bs she will reveal on her own. If you're going on a first date to pursue a LTR - YOU HAVE ALREADY LOST.

A lot of AFC's on here lately huh boys?

DJ BIBLE - BOOK OF POOK - BRADD80'S GUIDE TO MASTERING THE DJ WAY

Study and come back with educated questions.

There is no use in giving these guys pointers without them going thru the proper literature/bootcamp beforehand to comprehend and execute advise correctly
 

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Thanks guys

I had several rejections recently with modeone approach ,asking directly about sex on the first meet/date

>> would like have friends with benefits relationship and backfired ,saved time though :) <<



I am working on better calibration and emotions and asking better questions as i work all day on computer ,maybe thats why

I am working on improvement ,maybe stupid questions sometimes
Thanks again

Dgwizdal said:
Inserting open ended questions about how she feels about certain things that will get her emotions and hamster going.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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carrot said:
Thanks guys

I had several rejections recently with modeone approach ,asking directly about sex on the first meet/date
What is the "mode one approach"?

>> would like have friends with benefits relationship and backfired ,saved time though :) <<

carrot said:
I am working on better calibration and emotions and asking better questions as i work all day on computer ,maybe thats why
Please tell that you've not doing via some sort of online chat. Please tell that you're not doing this.

carrot said:
>> would like have friends with benefits relationship and backfired ,saved time though :) <<
:down: Dude, what the f*ck is wrong with you? Seriously? You're just going up to chicks "talm 'bout" "I want a friend with benefits," and you're expecting chicks to be like, "Cool, I'm wit it." Come on my nigga. You're not only not taking the game seriously, but you're DISRESPECTING the game.

You're on the right track with figuring out on your own that you're miscaliberating, but you're on the wrong train with thinking, (and Rex is assuming, and hopefully assuming wrong,) that you're trying to do all of this via the computer. You're going to have meet these chicks IN PERSON and escalate when you have them right there in front of you. Good luck.
 

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carrot said:
Rex
what to watch out for this ?
I'll do a thread on this when I get out of class in about two hours.
 

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when you get a min could you post thread
look to see ways of finding fast about girl within little time
Maximus Rex said:
I'll do a thread on this when I get out of class in about two hours.
 

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Man modeone is about being direct with your intentions with the use of dominant body language,

not so much of using direct verbal language as it kills the tention you want to build.

Yes Roger Allen ***** does say you can if you feel comfortable with it, but seeing how you posted here about it you should tone down you extreme direct lanuage and allow some mystery in not knowing whats going to happen next.
 
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