Questions from her on second date

[jfpt4e]

So met a solid 8.5 on match, went on first date within couple days of contacting her and had a great time. A week later went on second date and had a great time as well. Have a third date planned for this weekend.

On second date she asked me a series of questions about me and relationships. Tried to blow off as many as I could as I know we should not talk about past girlfriends. But two questions she asked me that I am curious on how you guys would answer:

Do you fall (for someone) hard?
Who did the breaking up in my past relationships, me, my girlfriends, or equal?

 

[BetterCallSaul]

How about....

Do you fall (for someone) hard?

You take life a day at a time and handle things as they come up.

Who did the breaking up in my past relationships, me, my girlfriends, or equal?

Are previous relations you had with girls important in what might happen with the current girl you're seeing? What's important is you're there with her right now. You're not with these other girls, you're with her.


If that all fails, try to shut her up with all the questions by saying something along the lines of "I don't want to get so serious about this stuff right now. We haven't known each other that long. I'm just trying to enjoy meeting new people and I want to have fun with you during the times we have together."

Sometimes women really know how to spoil a good time.

 

[Comatozed]

I wonder about the who dumped who question too.

I can't imagine saying you got dumped looks good. I'd consider using it as a way to set boundaries early, subtly.

I ended it because I wasn't happy with the way she behaved. bla bla not too many specifics.

 

[jfpt4e]

Great answers... Sometimes it's so difficult to think fast in the moment with sharp replies..

And yes, why can't women just enjoy the moment and have a good time as we were having.. The good thing is it ended with a good make out session..

I am divorced (and her as well), and that came up in the discussion. I was cheated on, so there really is no way around the who dumped who question on that. It is what it is..

But we are going on a third date tomorrow so we'll see how it goes, need to work on "quick" thinking skills...

 

[TheBossman]

These sound like questions she's read in a book or magazine to ask. I wonder if we could find the source and see what it says. Probably has a feminist psychologist author who then breaks down why men are pieces of sh!t in each scenario.