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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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questions for guys that sarge malls on the reg

Stark

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so I've been going to malls alot. i made 30 approaches in a different state and made lots of progress. # closes. possible day 2 (if i stayed in town). and of course a couple rejections.

now that i am in my home territory... I don't understand what is wrong with me... i've become a ***** again. its like my AA got worse especially because i dont have my buddy pushing me.

Questions

1. Is it possible for you to go to a mall too much? i've been going out alot this week in attempts to get over my aa and get approaches down. but i'm sure various employees and possibly security have seen me walking around for (embarrisingly) 2 hours. my aa was so bad that i didn't approach though but if i did would they get suspicious and report me?

2. regarding question 1. is it better to pick a spot, sit and post untill you acquire a target, then move to the target to open. so you are not seen just walking around the mall a million times?

3. is running to a target like sasha daygame does too much for a mall? i lose a lot of targets because it takes me forever to catch up to them.

4. general question for guys that routinley sarge malls. what is your overall plan for sarging malls and not drawing negative attention to yourself for being a "player" at the mall.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ

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1. Fk what those employees and security guards think.

2. Walk, Act like you got something actually to do. Make it seem like you came to the mall for a purpose.

3. Don't be running up to broads. That's thirsty. When I spit at the mall it's because there walking in the opposite direction or I see them in the store.

4. I don't gve a fk about any player vibe. Girls look at me and know I have females. Woopty doo. I could care less about what anyone thinks. The world doesn't revolve around you. I'm pretty sure the employees and security guards are thinking about their jobs.
 
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