Questions during convo

[Flabbergasped?]

I've had a little issue with the following. When I'm chatting up a chick, I go through attraction, and I throw some DHV and stuff in there, at least I'm keeping them interested. After that stage though, it goes downhill. The things we end up talking about become really mundane (what hall, majors, parties you've been too, etc.) and eventually their IL drops until I either eject or get a ****ty number.

Once you've made your opener and hit the theoretical hook point (or maybe a little before), what can you discuss to 1) make the conversation more sexual, and/or 2) to keep the girls from losing IL, which results in ejection?

I don't know any routines, and I don't intend to internalize any.

 

[zerocelcius]

It takes time, but you will realize when you should move out of attraction phase.

You have to start Kino and start turning things she says into to sexual jokes.

Do Kino than do a compliance test. You have to be comfortable with what ever you do so as not to look uneasy.

Try just escalating the Kino, and the rest should come naturally. If the Kino isn't working than you may have misjudged her IL.

Compliance test. Compliance test. Compliance test. (She will tell you, you just have to listen *body language*)

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Stop concentrating on just "chatting up" a woman. Chatting up is nothing but small talk and small talk is supposed to be small and short (brief). After a little small talk to initiate rapport and gain comfort, start talking about things a bit more personal (about her specifically) and less about other things (her major and parties).

 

[zerocelcius]

What's a compliance test?

How much of the bible and tips have you read?