“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Challenger

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Hi fellowers,
I have a question conerning speedseduction and in particular mirroring:
Do I have to copy every single move the other person makes like e.g. playing with a pencil, brushing the hair or do I just have to copy general body positions like if she is leaning back in her seat or not ?

My second question is: do I have to imitate every single position/move exactly like she does it or is it just important that her subconcious mind get an idea that I am copying her ?

Also does it work to copy the things exactly the other way round, like if she moves her left arm you move your right, her right leg you move your left etc. ?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The important thing is that she doesn't get that you are mirroring her on purpose. You could copy her and play with your pencil too, but I think she would be suspicious if you start brushing your hair too much. :)

It is very good and useful to mirror her posture (eg leaning back in her seat).

Some movements are easier than others to get caught on. The delay between her and your movement does also affect the probability of getting caught. You should try to follow her as soon as possible. Based on how easy it would be to get caught you do one of the following things:

  • Don’t image that move. If she does something that seems unnatural for you like brushing her hair. (Of course you could just touch your hair.)
  • Pache her. Do the movements at the same time as her if you think that it’s safe.
  • Follow her after a while if gets too obvious pacing her.

    You could also use this mirroring effect in the opposite way. Test her connection with you by doing a move and see if she follows you.

    Recommended reading: http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/02_How_to_Get_Started/mirroring.shtml

    /Turbobird
 
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Mirroring is done to create a a sense of a CONNECTION between you and the girl you're macking. Remember it is a SENSE of a connection. When i mirror, I find that psoture and body position (leaning into convo, etc.) is the best way...when she starts to sratch her head, you do the same, if she rests her hand on the table, again, you do the same. I personally find that mirroring shouldn't be EXACT...meaning if she scratches the left side of her head with her left index finger 3 times, with 2 horizontal movements, and then 1 vertical one DO NOT COPY EXACTLY! The idea is not to literally MIRROR, but to give a SENSE of connection by MIRRORING...make sense?

I think if you mirror to the EXACT detail, you end up getting away from the fun, and the reason you are there in the first place.
 
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