Questions about sex god method

[wonderer]

hey all read the book and thought it was great. Haven't used any of the stuff yet but am planning to.

Had some questions; A lot of the examples for emotional talk use the example of telling the girl you love her. I don't love this girl I'm fxcking so what would be some substitutes?

Also when using emotional/dirty talk do you always whisper into the ear? In some positions you wouldn't be able to do this? Ive never talked dirty and the whole concept seems so unnatural to me!

 

[apprenticedj]

Just tell her how much she turns you on, how perfect her ass is, how tight her ***** is etc.

No you don't just have to whisper it in her ear, just say it in the heat of the moment. If she's down with dirty talk, which I would say 90% of women are, she just wants to hear it, whispered or not. Like when you're banging her from behind you can't whisper in her ear (which you alluded to in your post) so you just say dirty ****. Make sure you smack that ass and then work your hands into the hair and start to pull it (mildly at first).

BUT (I yelled that BTW) if you don't naturally talk dirty during sex and you've ACTUALLY had sex ie not a virgin, it might not be your style. You can't fake your sex style that much because it's an internal, primal thing. Now you can practice talking dirty and you'll invaribly improve but you definitely run the risk of sounding phony.

Make sure you set the tempo early in the encounter, get her as revved as you possibly can BEFORE you get her naked. Once the clothes are off keep that tempo bumping and take control.

 

[JoeMarron]

I wasn't a dirty talker at first but was able to get comfortable with it. The more you do it, the more comfortable you'll be and the more natural it'll sound. You don't have to whisper, just talk at a normal conversation level. I wouldn't use too much emotional talk if you don't love her. Do what apprenticedj said. "It feels so good when I'm inside you" "I love fvcking you deep and hard" "I love how wet you get for me" "You look so fvcking sexy riding me like that" etc. Note that you may not love her but she'll fall for you hard if you do this stuff right. Proceed with caution.

 

[wonderer]

Thanks for the responses both!

 

[Cerwin Vega]

I lust you.