wonderbread
Don Juan
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First off I'd like to thank all the members here, you all helped me a lot and I'm asking for a little more, but just some questions about high school in general, nothing to specific about "cheating girlfriends" or other highschool problems.
I thought I'd make a list of questions I have had but were afraid to ask my elders/peers and others could compare answers or add questions they had about high school. I'll start with what I think everyone in HS thinks about almost as much as HS boys think about getting laid.
Q: What is this forums opinion of drugs in HS? Should you try them? Steer clear? I know in my school many students overuse them and the "gateway" drug thing might seem silly but it has happened in my school, but I know some friends who say some of the best times they've ever had were when they were stoned.
Q: Motivation. Is there a sure fire way to gain motivation? Around this time of the year is mid terms for high schoolers like myself and it is becoming very stressful and I'm personally feeling a lack of motivation and am not caring even though I know I should.
Q: Sex in high school. A touchy subject for many high school virgins. I personally don't care about losing my virginity as much as an average high schooler but I know many guys that are really concerned just because it hasn't "been their time." But when it comes to that time, how does a 16-17 year old high schooler purchase condoms and such to be safe? I guess this would be more of a parental issue but I'm curious and I'm sure i'm not the only one.
Q: How to "be cool"- What are the current styles of clothing/attitude and such that make you stand out as a person and not just another sack in a chair with a pencil. What were the styles when you were in HS? for the older people that read this. I know that theoretically all you have to do is go out and do things, but I'd like to know what you guys did.
Q: How to attract girls? This one I've been wondering about for a while because the only girlfriend I've ever had was really into me and made the approach on me, and apparently I did many things right in the DJ book without even knowing about this website so I'm proud of myself for figuring a lot of these things by myself. But the main question is, how to approach in HS? How to ask for a # in HS? Is it weird to just walk up to someone at lunch or in a class and just talk to them because it feels weird when I do it and I feel a bit unsuccessful.
Q: One guy one girl relationships or casual fun for HS? My Ex gf was a person that I thought I'd want to spend almost all HS with at the time but looking back on it I'm glad we separated relatively early (im a junior) and now I'm having fun with other girls but still feel a little depressed when I think about it.
Q: How to react to an ex in HS setting? Ex: In a classroom, on social networking sites (Facebook, Myspace) keep her as a friend or just dump her? Its more of a personal question because you'd have to know the specific situations of others and myself, but any information anyone could give would be great.
Those are the only questions I can think of at the moment and I thank you all once again for helping me, The DJ bible has reinforced points I've thought and I'm glad I found this website at such an early age.
I thought I'd make a list of questions I have had but were afraid to ask my elders/peers and others could compare answers or add questions they had about high school. I'll start with what I think everyone in HS thinks about almost as much as HS boys think about getting laid.
Q: What is this forums opinion of drugs in HS? Should you try them? Steer clear? I know in my school many students overuse them and the "gateway" drug thing might seem silly but it has happened in my school, but I know some friends who say some of the best times they've ever had were when they were stoned.
Q: Motivation. Is there a sure fire way to gain motivation? Around this time of the year is mid terms for high schoolers like myself and it is becoming very stressful and I'm personally feeling a lack of motivation and am not caring even though I know I should.
Q: Sex in high school. A touchy subject for many high school virgins. I personally don't care about losing my virginity as much as an average high schooler but I know many guys that are really concerned just because it hasn't "been their time." But when it comes to that time, how does a 16-17 year old high schooler purchase condoms and such to be safe? I guess this would be more of a parental issue but I'm curious and I'm sure i'm not the only one.
Q: How to "be cool"- What are the current styles of clothing/attitude and such that make you stand out as a person and not just another sack in a chair with a pencil. What were the styles when you were in HS? for the older people that read this. I know that theoretically all you have to do is go out and do things, but I'd like to know what you guys did.
Q: How to attract girls? This one I've been wondering about for a while because the only girlfriend I've ever had was really into me and made the approach on me, and apparently I did many things right in the DJ book without even knowing about this website so I'm proud of myself for figuring a lot of these things by myself. But the main question is, how to approach in HS? How to ask for a # in HS? Is it weird to just walk up to someone at lunch or in a class and just talk to them because it feels weird when I do it and I feel a bit unsuccessful.
Q: One guy one girl relationships or casual fun for HS? My Ex gf was a person that I thought I'd want to spend almost all HS with at the time but looking back on it I'm glad we separated relatively early (im a junior) and now I'm having fun with other girls but still feel a little depressed when I think about it.
Q: How to react to an ex in HS setting? Ex: In a classroom, on social networking sites (Facebook, Myspace) keep her as a friend or just dump her? Its more of a personal question because you'd have to know the specific situations of others and myself, but any information anyone could give would be great.
Those are the only questions I can think of at the moment and I thank you all once again for helping me, The DJ bible has reinforced points I've thought and I'm glad I found this website at such an early age.
