"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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questions about gf and advice

source55

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Hello

Opening this thread, because I have questions...
I just don't know how to answer or react to some questions or answers...
So here are some and I you can please suggest what to answer or do in this situation..

1. Me: Why were we even in a relationship with me if you just wanted parties and a lot of guy friends to hang with?
Her answer : I wanted you at the beginning.
I just gotta say something to this. because it leaves me speeches.

2. She never tells me her problems...when I went to Coolidge, she started hanging out with other guys...and she never told me, at the end she found some guys that were more fun...and all we ended up were in fights and no fun.

3. She said she sees me as a friend sometimes... how do i change that?

Thanks for now :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Could not said it better myself.

She went on the...I dont know how you call it in english....the 1 week school trip in the 3rd high school year.. Where they get drunk and party all the time, it's mostly in spain and greece?

Well she is there and on Sunday she comes home. When she get's back I just want answers and see If she calmed down now...
 

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sound to me like she's friendzoning you, if she's telling you that she's starting to think of you as a friend, then you are probably already there!!!

If you weren't split when she went away, don't be surprised if she comes back and tells you that "her feelings have changed" or that she's "met someone else"........

Get ready to spin plates mate
 

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we are split for 3 months, but were still going out and doing the usual thing...only that she did whatever the hell she wanted...
We had some fights, called her a *****, and 100 other bad names..
We kind of got along the week before she left... So I don't know.
 

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source55 said:
Her answer : I wanted you at the beginning.
She is talking about the past. That means it's over and she doesn't want you now. Why fight with her? Not sure why you guys put up with all this drama and bvllsh1t from girls. If they aren't acting right get rid of them when they start giving you trouble. The more you fight and try to reason with them the worse it gets. No need for that because they already have other guys to fvck. That's why you get girls to fvck instead of taking their crap.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We never had sex...she never had sex with anyone...

I don't know. can't be without her...
 

Ruleit

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source55 said:
We never had sex...she never had sex with anyone...

I don't know. can't be without her...
That's what she's led you to believe.

Let me give you a simple formula:

drinking + parties + trip to spain/greece = sex (LOTS of it)

I spent my twenties in the Mediterranean. Summer was the best time of the year... would gorge on all the pu$$y that was being thrown around freely.

She dumped you so she could freely explore her wild side and left you holding your banana.

Move onto the next one. This one is too full of lies and deception.
 

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I fingered her ... I could barely stick one finger in. She doesn't finger herself... If I would want to have sex I couldn't. It wouldn't fit in. It would be a painfull experience..

Everything else...yea that is possible, but not the sex
 

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source55 said:
If I would want to have sex I couldn't. It wouldn't fit in. It would be a painfull experience..
Wake up... that's why it's called losing virginity.

If you can't fit it in, it doesn't mean someone else can't and that someone else hasn't.
 

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im not gonna argue. But no she wont have sex :D
I think I know her much more then you. We are going on a beer if she will have it...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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