"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Questionnaire: What kind of vibe do you have?

Mr Wright

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This is research thread because I'm curious about stuff.

I've been thinking and watching people a lot and realised that different people get away with different things because of their vibe. I know guys who go out to clubs a lot who look pretty similar and both get laid a lot from clubs but both do it in completely different ways.

I think this is useful because if you can identify situations where a certain type of vibe works really well. For example, being aloof in a nightclub works better than it does on the street. But also what type of girls you hit on? Does it work well on artsy girls or business women types etc. I think it could really help guys who perhaps want to date a certain type of girl but can't quite get to grips with it can read this and work out how guys perhaps in a similar situation but getting better results are doing it.


So the info I'm looking for is:

- What sort of vibe do you have?
- How good looking are you? (include age if not on profile)
- Where do you get your best results? (social, club, online, street etc)
- What type of girls do you get your best results with?
- How many girls do you talk/approach/message to get a date?


Results for myself


Vibe: Calm, relaxed and aloof.

Looks: Reasonably good looking about 7 +/- 1 depending on what I'm wearing, have been approach by Abercrombie scouts. Average height.

Results: Clubs

Type: Any British guys will know the type I'm on about. Pretty much every girl I seem to date come from rich families, went to private school/boarding school. I can pick these girls out in a crowd and I do very well with them for some reason. Sooo pretty little rich girls

Magic Number: Depends on the location probably 1 in 15 on average but some days it's as little as 1 in 5.


Thanks in advance
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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narcissist

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Vibe: intelligent, witty, ****y, indifferent

Looks: Anywhere from 7.5-8/10, 170 lbs of lean muscle, 5'11, very nice clothing

Results: Mainly school, but really anywhere where girls are to be honest

Type: Wallflower shy type girls are my specialty, clubber girls not so much

Magic number: 1 in 7, but I'm including study dates which are extremely easy to set up
 
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