"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I met this girl at the comedy club. As soon as she started talking she starting touching and smiling, a lot. So I was like what the heck, and grabbed the ass. Then she said, you just grabbed me on the ass. I was like "yeah?" and she was like "that's okay and touched me on the shoulder.

I saw her 2 more times but didn't talk to her. At the comedy club, she introduced herself, she forgot about me. I reminded her, I talked to her. She said "Oh yeah, you are the guy who touched me on the ass. (smiling) that was interesting, but that was an accident?" I didn't answer. She was like well if it happens again, I will kick your ass.

So what I don't get is why she was touching me, smiling, and didn't like the ass grab. Or was that just reverse psychology?

Also how can you tell if she wants to have sex, or it is okay to make the move on her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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crossboss said:
I met this girl at the comedy club. As soon as she started talking she starting touching and smiling, a lot. So I was like what the heck, and grabbed the ass. Then she said, you just grabbed me on the ass. I was like "yeah?" and she was like "that's okay and touched me on the shoulder.

I saw her 2 more times but didn't talk to her. At the comedy club, she introduced herself, she forgot about me. I reminded her, I talked to her. She said "Oh yeah, you are the guy who touched me on the ass. (smiling) that was interesting, but that was an accident?" I didn't answer. She was like well if it happens again, I will kick your ass.

So what I don't get is why she was touching me, smiling, and didn't like the ass grab. Or was that just reverse psychology?

Also how can you tell if she wants to have sex, or it is okay to make the move on her?
WOW your a dumbass she likes you dude,she did like that ass grapping your an idiot even a guy like me would know this your an idiot!
 

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Thanks for the advice.

I should have known it was reverse psychology. I wasn't thinking.
 

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Whoa, you only touched her ass and you get the idea she wants to lay you. Haha, if only you could show it in real life. ;)

So what I don't get is why she was touching me, smiling, and didn't like the ass grab. Or was that just reverse psychology?

or it is okay to make the move on her?
Assume she likes you, make the move!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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crossboss said:
Also how can you tell if she wants to have sex, or it is okay to make the move on her?
Come on! You grab her ass, but come on asking us on this average bs?

I say troll.
 

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crossboss said:
I should have known it was reverse psychology. I wasn't thinking.
Its simple she likes you but your too dumb to notice man if I was in your position I would grapped her ass alot more your dumbass she likes you but your an idiot,get out of here until you become smart!
 

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Then she said, you just grabbed me on the ass. I was like "yeah?" and she was like "that's okay and touched me on the shoulder.
Okay, this is really good.

I saw her 2 more times but didn't talk to her. At the comedy club, she introduced herself, she forgot about me.
Ummm, was this in the same night, or was it on two different nights? If it was on different nights, you missed something... A NUMBER CLOSE.

When the signs are obviously there, you take action. When you're getting mixed signals, you take action (and you'll find out if she's interested).
 

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Crossboss is a bigger loser then me,I thought I was the biggest loser on this forum but until I read crossboss's posts espically this thread man you just missed out on puzzy.

Your a troll!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dream

1. I still can get pvssy.

2. You can't come up with a simple comeback to the average retard.

So why talk?
 

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teasing you, thats all shes doing.
 

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Bible

I have been neglecting the bible, part of the reason I just don't do what the bible tells me. I will read the bible. I just need a kick in the ass. I sometimes have self-doubt.

I should have done a number close.
 

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crossboss said:
1. I still can get pvssy.

2. You can't come up with a simple comeback to the average retard.

So why talk?
No your the dumbest person I know cleary this girl gave you ALL the ****en signals that she likes you in a sexual way,but you come here posting and asking the dumbest question EVER!I think you need to not come on this forum until you notice that your an idiot after grapping a girl's ass and she even smiled,plus she was touching you.And you thought she didn't like you?OMFG your the most stupidest person I have ever met even a guy like me who is known for being dorky or a loser would have notice this girl is giving me signls that she likes me.Crossboss do us all a favor come back to this forum when you get smart because right now your a ****en dumbass:up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1. When was the last time you had a girlfriend?

2. How many times have you actually grabbed a girl on the ass?

Enough said.
 

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crossboss said:
1. When was the last time you had a girlfriend?

2. How many times have you actually grabbed a girl on the ass?

Enough said.
Well I never had a girlfriend and still don't have one and never grabbed a girl in the ass.But you had all those oppurtinitys and you come on here in here asking the dumbest question even a guy like me would know the answer she liked you dude.Your the dumbest person ever man your an idiot i hope you read this!;) :crazy: :moon:
 

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Dreamx:

Don't call others idiots or losers.

Don't call yourself an idiot or a loser.

These are not the reasons why people fu'ck up. They fu'ck up because they don't know what to do or don't have the skills.

Two words: CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM. As opposed to, as you do, insult. The difference is that you should realise that it's perfectly okay to have problems. Criticism should be a way to help others, not to expand your tortured little ego. Cool it dude. It's okay to have problems.

Simple, yet effective.
 

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dreamx, wha you are saying is like me saying "i have mever driven a car before, but put me in the drivers seat and i will be able to do it"

crossboss, im going to make an asumption, and if im correct it explains everything.

She was drunk wasnt she?
 

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She might have been.

I think she might have been drunk. Yet I do have girls that touch me that I know are aren't drunk.

Dreamx, before you call somebody a moron, learn the game. You are fvcking hypocrite, you talk trash yet you can't even make the move on a single girl interested. You also have had opportunites to make the moves on girls yourself, and you blow it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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