"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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After the first date, the way i see it, if a girl likes you, she should call you, not wait for you to always call her. Am i wrong? Btw i never give out my # unless she asks for it, as the DJBC says always assume they have call display.

I'm new to the game so i'm not sure if these are signs or not. I guess what im asking is , does the guy always have to be the one to call? Cause i will go out with a girl, and be like, ok if she likes me and wants to go out again, she has to call me. Is this wrong?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why such a big fuss over calling people? If you wanna set up another date, or have a quick 3 min chat... call her, for suck fakes. :-/ You gotta stop worrying about the outcome and focus on having fun right here in the present moment in time.

Just use your own judgement here, don't overdo it. Like for example, my judgement would tell me the non-emotional, rational and non AFC thing to do would be to get on with my life, call her a day or two later... see how she is... see what she's doing... and take it from there.
 
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Stop trying to find and create rules for dating. The game is like water its fluid, malleable we should stop concentrating on rules and start concentrating on the game itself. All these rules restrict us they give us limitations and I myself don’t like to be limited.

I view the rules as guidelines so I am never limiting myself. If at sometime I feel like telling a girl she is beautiful I do it because I don’t have rules restricting me. I believe this is what makes my game so strong.

So if you want to call her call her don’t feel you should follow any rules like the "3 day rules" ect ect.
 
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Stop trying to find and create rules for dating. The game is like water its fluid, malleable we should stop concentrating on rules and start concentrating on the game itself. All these rules restrict us they give us limitations and I myself don’t like to be limited.
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RACK EM!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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