"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wavejams007

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Question to all you out there, After a girl breaks up from a year long relationship, how long should you wait in order to get with her? One of my female friends just broke up with her BF, and I am interested, but was wandering when to make the move.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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make your move if she still isnt sad about breaking up with her other bf
 

Vincent

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this is entirelly up to you, you'll always just be the rebound.
 

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Call me stupid, Vincent, but what exactly do you mean by being the "rebound"?
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Call me stupid, Vincent, but what exactly do you mean by being the "rebound"?
Youll be there to get over the other guy.

I think.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maeisgood

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How can you really tell if she is ready though? Are there ******d signs? I get this impression from most girls that they are all really just actors. They'll do anything to get the message across that says "I am cute." Even if they are sad on the inside they'll struggle with trying to get it across that they are cute and beautiful. They decorate everything with their names, flowers, etc. So it can be really hard to tell what they are actually thinking.
 

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wavejams007 Call me stupid, Vincent, but what exactly do you mean by being the "rebound"?
the emotional tampon
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Ratman
the emotional tampon
not necessarily, it's hard to describe a rebound, it's just the person the chick finds that have the qualities that their old boyfriend didn't have and like fall in love with them. It's not a good thing trust me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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